"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sosuave saved me: BPD ex tried to pull me back in, PREGNANT

Infern0

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I honestly shudder to think about if this had happened 2 years ago.

She contacred me from a new number, i replied as i was bored at work and she starts using her old pet name for me etc etc.

Then she's like "id love to come stay the night, but theres one thing i have to tell you, im 16 weeks"

Erm......

Nah your alright, love.

Sweet jesus, sosuave.

I could have been a cuck.

Thanks sosuave you saw me through this journey to it's end.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BetterCallSaul

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Wow, she's probably calling through all the guys trying to find the 'one' she can pin this on.
 

El Payaso

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Probably also trying to find a guy to play daddy to the kid.
 

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All women know 'father unknown' on the kids birth certificate is a bad thing…
She has to at least get someone to play the part. Puts the truth off until later.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It is my experience that BPD's usually lie about being pregnant,call her bluff fvck her and proceed slowly.
 

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It is my experience that BPD's usually lie about being pregnant,call her bluff fvck her and proceed slowly.
Tbh i think its possible she's lying for whatever reason. But i dont want to mess with that either way.
 

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It's good to know where to find help, and be man enough, to accept it. This female business, is some serious sh!t!
 

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LOL dang bro...this hoe haz some ballz


my response literally would have been LOL because that chit is funny. crazy ass hoes lol im cracking up here right now. such audacity
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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