"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sosuave saved me: BPD ex tried to pull me back in, PREGNANT

Infern0

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I honestly shudder to think about if this had happened 2 years ago.

She contacred me from a new number, i replied as i was bored at work and she starts using her old pet name for me etc etc.

Then she's like "id love to come stay the night, but theres one thing i have to tell you, im 16 weeks"

Erm......

Nah your alright, love.

Sweet jesus, sosuave.

I could have been a cuck.

Thanks sosuave you saw me through this journey to it's end.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BetterCallSaul

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Wow, she's probably calling through all the guys trying to find the 'one' she can pin this on.
 

El Payaso

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Probably also trying to find a guy to play daddy to the kid.
 

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All women know 'father unknown' on the kids birth certificate is a bad thing…
She has to at least get someone to play the part. Puts the truth off until later.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It is my experience that BPD's usually lie about being pregnant,call her bluff fvck her and proceed slowly.
 

Infern0

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It is my experience that BPD's usually lie about being pregnant,call her bluff fvck her and proceed slowly.
Tbh i think its possible she's lying for whatever reason. But i dont want to mess with that either way.
 

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It's good to know where to find help, and be man enough, to accept it. This female business, is some serious sh!t!
 

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LOL dang bro...this hoe haz some ballz


my response literally would have been LOL because that chit is funny. crazy ass hoes lol im cracking up here right now. such audacity
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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