"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sosuave saved me: BPD ex tried to pull me back in, PREGNANT

Infern0

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I honestly shudder to think about if this had happened 2 years ago.

She contacred me from a new number, i replied as i was bored at work and she starts using her old pet name for me etc etc.

Then she's like "id love to come stay the night, but theres one thing i have to tell you, im 16 weeks"

Erm......

Nah your alright, love.

Sweet jesus, sosuave.

I could have been a cuck.

Thanks sosuave you saw me through this journey to it's end.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow, she's probably calling through all the guys trying to find the 'one' she can pin this on.
 
El Payaso

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Probably also trying to find a guy to play daddy to the kid.
 
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All women know 'father unknown' on the kids birth certificate is a bad thing…
She has to at least get someone to play the part. Puts the truth off until later.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It is my experience that BPD's usually lie about being pregnant,call her bluff fvck her and proceed slowly.
 
Infern0

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Red Legg said:
It is my experience that BPD's usually lie about being pregnant,call her bluff fvck her and proceed slowly.
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Tbh i think its possible she's lying for whatever reason. But i dont want to mess with that either way.
 
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It's good to know where to find help, and be man enough, to accept it. This female business, is some serious sh!t!
 
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LOL dang bro...this hoe haz some ballz


my response literally would have been LOL because that chit is funny. crazy ass hoes lol im cracking up here right now. such audacity
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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