SoSuave or SoOffTrack

[logicallefty]

Geeze, I have seen a lot of you guys here bickering like women lately. Little soft jabs at each other. Being jerks to guys who are genuinely asking for serious help and are in a place NOW that you once were. LL may be a cop in real life, a moderator on SS, and a guy who is never deprived of sex, but he is NOT an alpha male. Yes, I lean towards alpha like tendencies 80+% in how I conduct myself, but I am not a true alpha. But for those of you who want to be alpha males, part of that is being able to be respectful to people who aren't as well off in life as you are at this point in time. Think about that before you reply to another poster. Who are you now? And who do you want to be? Before you smear the poster, give it some thought.... SoSuave, or SoOffTrack??? Which are you? LL

 

[R.U.G.]

Preach. We've all worn the shoes of our naive new brethren's. Only with time and experience do we attempt to learn and master the game. We should all help and guide each other, not attack someone if we do not agree with them.

 

[sazc]

I'm still in the running to be a moderator, right?

 

[lamath]

I see some people being ******* or some people get buthurt way too easy.

Disagreeing in a respectable maner is all good

 

[marmel75]

I dont understand the guys who ask for advice about how they can stay with/get back a woman who has filled their life with drama, headaches and arguments multiple times a day over the most idiotic stuff for long periods of time...its almost like the low Testosterone epidemic is playing out right before our eyes on this board with every new thread...men loving drama and getting addicted to the emotions it creates in them like women do...

I just can't even fathom how they would want this type of toxicity in their life and then the kicker is they try and rationalize it away...again...just like women do.

So yes, I will admit that i get a little irritated with some of these threads because I just can't see it from their point of view and i hope to God I never am able to.

This has nothing to do with beta/alpha BS...this has to do with men having no idea what it means to have a masculine energy about them in many cases...its sad. I cant help but feel sorry for them but at the end of the day they have to help themselves out with this. They just don't get it how these type of people and especially these type of toxic women steal this type of energy from them....they need to push people like that away from them immediately and at all costs.

 

[sazc]

There isn't a common/shared belief system here. Couple that with a mess of different ppl, and 'SoOffTrack' is what you get.

 

[marmel75]

There isn't a common/shared belief system here. Couple that with a mess of different ppl, and 'SoOffTrack' is what you get.

Hmm...is this a variable where camel case should be used or is it a constructor or class where Pascal Case should be used? This would be a good topic of discussion....I'll hang up and listen.

 

[sazc]

Hmm...is this a variable where camel case should be used or is it a constructor or class where Pascal Case should be used? This would be a good topic of discussion....I'll hang up and listen.

I deleted the comment, lol

But, as typical coding standards go (at least, as of late, with restful services), it is an incorrect use as the first 's' should be lowercase

 

[Focal core]

Geeze, I have seen a lot of you guys here bickering like women lately. Little soft jabs at each other. Being jerks to guys who are genuinely asking for serious help and are in a place NOW that you once were. LL may be a cop in real life, a moderator on SS, and a guy who is never deprived of sex, but he is NOT an alpha male. Yes, I lean towards alpha like tendencies 80+% in how I conduct myself, but I am not a true alpha. But for those of you who want to be alpha males, part of that is being able to be respectful to people who aren't as well off in life as you are at this point in time. Think about that before you reply to another poster. Who are you now? And who do you want to be? Before you smear the poster, give it some thought.... SoSuave, or SoOffTrack??? Which are you? LL

Spot on. Most being helpful relies on Alpha this alpha that beta that lol... Wtf.. I myself a true alpha males didn't wavering my ****yness like that.. Dont be spiteful or hatred guys.. Be genuine.. You know yourself by knowing who you're not.

 

[Glassguy]

I dont understand the guys who ask for advice about how they can stay with/get back a woman who has filled their life with drama, headaches and arguments multiple times a day over the most idiotic stuff for long periods of time...its almost like the low Testosterone epidemic is playing out right before our eyes on this board with every new thread...men loving drama and getting addicted to the emotions it creates in them like women do...

I just can't even fathom how they would want this type of toxicity in their life and then the kicker is they try and rationalize it away...again...just like women do.

So yes, I will admit that i get a little irritated with some of these threads because I just can't see it from their point of view and i hope to God I never am able to.

This has nothing to do with beta/alpha BS...this has to do with men having no idea what it means to have a masculine energy about them in many cases...its sad. I cant help but feel sorry for them but at the end of the day they have to help themselves out with this. They just don't get it how these type of people and especially these type of toxic women steal this type of energy from them....they need to push people like that away from them immediately and at all costs.

Very true.

Some guys that have been around this forum for years would still sell their soul to the devil himself to be able to get back the ex that was totally toxic and full of red flaga that treated them like dirt. In the end it is aggravating. Once they do get a consensus full of advice they dont want to hear, they leave or argue by making excuses for the woman that brought them here.

Oh well. Cant save them all lol.

 

[Focal core]

At best we help them to grow themselves.. Life is about growth and growth will bring changes. Changes in the so call beta will take takes time and knowledge from forumers to lead them based on their needs.. Dont jump based on your experience, your intellects and knowledges matters the most. Most of us here are fvcked in some other ways too and our past may mislead them.

Thank you your honor, I step out from the court room.

 

[marmel75]

I deleted the comment, lol

But, as typical coding standards go (at least, as of late, with restful services), it is an incorrect use as the first 's' should be lowercase

Yeah, depending on what it is and what language, but in general correct

 

[Spaz]

The difference in personalities is actually what makes the wheel turns in any social setting, organisation or if you like in a forum such as this.

If only 1 personality is dominant in the forum then is cannot develop its full potential.

It will take all 4 personality quadrant to keep things moving along.

OP's views is the view within his personality quadrant that will be shared by those having similar personality.

While others will not share the same belief due to the difference in personality as can be seen here.

I will use the example of the making of a rocket with the idea to fly to the moon on how personality works to make it a successful mission.

The motivator - A dominant. He will push for his lofty ideas of conquering the moon.

The intellectual - A passive. He accepts the ideas of the motivator and he is the one who designs everything.

The Doer - A dominant. He is the engineer who will actually create the rocket from the ideas of the intellectual.

The Expressive - A passive. He keeps everyone entertained and is the one who keeps the peace with the 3 other personality traits.

In the end it doesn't matter if one is aggressive or passive, rude or polite, cruel or kind, arrogant or humble, alpha or beta, because everyone plays a role for society to work.

If one reigns supreme then society cannot function. It will then regress.

 

[Tilex]

For Real guys!
Let's get back on track!

Group hug everyone?

This is a great thread by the way!

 

[logicallefty]

I dont understand the guys who ask for advice about how they can stay with/get back a woman who has filled their life with drama, headaches and arguments multiple times a day over the most idiotic stuff for long periods of time...

.

This is part of the journey. Most guys have to experience the pain at least once. Hopefully it will only take once, and for some lucky guys, maybe they will adhere to our advice and correct their path of behavior before getting slaughtered by a toxic woman. But for most guys it's gonna take at least once. For me it took twice.

 

[longtail]

The forum is populated by people whose lives have gone seriously off the rails. Drug addicts. Homeless. The chronically mentally ill. Full time trolls. Then there are those who are just lazy and like to whine about how evil women are or how it's impossible to date. Plus, a handful of elderly with all the time in the world.

Basically, those who have the least successful lives post here the most. Which makes sense. Who else has the time to post here thousands of times? The problem is, if the moderators take a heavy handed approach, forum activity dwindles. If they don't, the natural trollness and pointlessness of the posts shoots up to infinity.

Tough call.

 

[sazc]

The forum is populated by people whose lives have gone seriously off the rails. Drug addicts. Homeless. The chronically mentally ill. Full time trolls. Then there are those who are just lazy and like to whine about how evil women are or how it's impossible to date. Plus, a handful of elderly with all the time in the world.

Basically, those who have the least successful lives post here the most. Which makes sense. Who else has the time to post here thousands of times? The problem is, if the moderators take a heavy handed approach, forum activity dwindles. If they don't, the natural trollness and pointlessness of the posts shoots up to infinity.

Tough call.

Haha, which one are you?
Hmmmmmm which one am I?

 

[logicallefty]

The forum is populated by people whose lives have gone seriously off the rails. Drug addicts. Homeless. The chronically mentally ill. Full time trolls. Then there are those who are just lazy and like to whine about how evil women are or how it's impossible to date. Plus, a handful of elderly with all the time in the world.
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There are some guys on here as you say. But I genuinely believe that most guys on here are legit and just at various points in their lives and their red pill journey. To put it another way; same struggles, same timeline, different points on the line.

Basically, those who have the least successful lives post here the most. Which makes sense. Who else has the time to post here thousands of times? The problem is, if the moderators take a heavy handed approach, forum activity dwindles. If they don't, the natural trollness and pointlessness of the posts shoots up to infinity. Reference Tenacity, Bigneil,

Tough call.

The main repeated pattern I have noticed in forum behavior is that some of the best posters who post great stuff and then get into the "top 20 likes club" let it go to their head. They become jerks, quit following forum rules, etc. And we end up banning them. Reference BigNeil, Poon King, Tenacity. I'm sure there were a few more. Lately, as my OP somewhat referenced, a few people on here are going with the "soft jab" aka passive aggressive approach. Much harder for us to moderate those. But all in all, as I said above, I think most of the people on here are good and legit, and they contribute to the forum in positive ways.

 

[longtail]

There are some guys on here as you say. But I genuinely believe that most guys on here are legit and just at various points in their lives and their red pill journey. To put it another way; same struggles, same timeline, different points on the line.



The main repeated pattern I have noticed in forum behavior is that some of the best posters who post great stuff and then get into the "top 20 likes club" let it go to their head. They become jerks, quit following forum rules, etc. And we end up banning them. Reference BigNeil, Poon King, Tenacity. I'm sure there were a few more. Lately, as my OP somewhat referenced, a few people on here are going with the "soft jab" aka passive aggressive approach. Much harder for us to moderate those. But all in all, as I said above, I think most of the people on here are good and legit, and they contribute to the forum in positive ways.

Interesting observations on the history of the forum.

Yeah, I agree, the posters are probably more 'normal' than they let on with their posts.

 

[wifehunter]

Geeze, I have seen a lot of you guys here bickering like women lately. Little soft jabs at each other. Being jerks to guys who are genuinely asking for serious help and are in a place NOW that you once were. LL may be a cop in real life, a moderator on SS, and a guy who is never deprived of sex, but he is NOT an alpha male. Yes, I lean towards alpha like tendencies 80+% in how I conduct myself, but I am not a true alpha. But for those of you who want to be alpha males, part of that is being able to be respectful to people who aren't as well off in life as you are at this point in time. Think about that before you reply to another poster. Who are you now? And who do you want to be? Before you smear the poster, give it some thought.... SoSuave, or SoOffTrack??? Which are you? LL

Factor into your observation that the authorites don't lock up crazies anymore. Crazies are free to roam the streets and internet forums. Wecome to planet crazy.