SoSuave or SoOffTrack

[MatureDJ]

I dont understand the guys who ask for advice about how they can stay with/get back a woman who has filled their life with drama, headaches and arguments multiple times a day over the most idiotic stuff for long periods of time...its almost like the low Testosterone epidemic is playing out right before our eyes on this board with every new thread...men loving drama and getting addicted to the emotions it creates in them like women do...

I think the masculine personality trait is just not designed for a peaceful society (i.e., no culling of young men from the herd, no way to show absolute dominance, etc.) in which young female sexuality is not controlled, or at least kept in check through social mores. Did men have a problem getting poontang in the era when girls were told "you will marry this boy" or even as late as the early '60s, when the zeitgeist was for women to pair off to men and not engage in frowned upon hypergamy?

The utter folly of the fact that there are so many men that have to learn "game" just to be in the "game" is a symptom that our society is screwed.

 

[longtail]

It's a motley crue. I'm part of a facebook group which is actually helpful. You know who these people are, you meet them, you can go out, verify what's really happening and vice versa. Of course, there are some people in the group you'll never meet, but with photos, videos, detailed descriptions, you pretty much know exactly what's going on.

Here, nada. There's basically zero actionable advice. This leads to wildly exaggerated claims, total fabrications, endless trolling, basically just dogs chasing their own tails day after day. Even if the advice were to be solid, which it almost never is, no one ever actually follows the advice.

The bible isn't so bad, but there's not a single person who's actually followed any of it's recommendations.

I do enjoy checking out the forum every once in a while. It's great for a chuckle and mischievous fun. It's like the sideshow carnival. Clowns, people on stilts, a bear riding a mini cycle, a bit of popcorn and very low cost of entry.

 

[Serenity]

I'm guilty of this behavior, but I regret it. I got frustrated at some of the guys who just wouldn't take advice, forgetting the fact that change ultimately comes from within. Nobody can change someone else who doesn't want to change.

I'm tired of the bickering, it's a complete waste. I want more of the deep and juicy material found in the DJ Bible, that's what I initially came here for. Once in a while it appears, but mostly the forum is filled with shallow questions asked a billion times before and answered 10 times more than that. I get it though, guys come here seeking advice and they are not yet aware that their situation isn't as unique as they perhaps thought. We give them sh!t instead of pointing the way, we don't need to actually type original answers, I could probably compile a list of multiple threads answering every single question in a few minutes.

 

[GrowingPains]

I'm tired of the bickering, it's a complete waste. I want more of the deep and juicy material found in the DJ Bible, that's what I initially came here for. Once in a while it appears, but mostly the forum is filled with shallow questions asked a billion times before and answered 10 times more than that. I get it though, guys come here seeking advice and they are not yet aware that their situation isn't as unique as they perhaps thought ... I could probably compile a list of multiple threads answering every single question in a few minutes.

Boom.

 

[wifehunter]

If it was called the DJ manual instead, we could say RTFM!!!

 

[longtail]

This forum is great if you have a macabre sense of humor. There's very little doubt that it attracts the bottom of the barrel. Homeless, addicts, mentally deranged, incels, bipolar, anger management types, as well as the chronically lazy/indigent a s s hole attention seekers.

They'll play nice at first, but their true colors eventually show and the sh1tshow just devolves and sinks further and further in a never ending cycle. Then there are the older posters who post 10 page essays they cribbed out a psych1 textbook, god knows why.

But really, despite all the internet tough guy talks, they're all a bunch of sensitive pvssycats in real life.