"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sosuave is doing a LIVE broadcast September 10th! [merged]

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Hey guys! Just letting everyone here know that myself and Rollo Tomassi will be hosting sosuave's first ever live broadcast Saturday, the 10th of September.

We'll be discussing the most popular topics from this board as well as taking live video calls and text questions for whoever wants to join in. We want as much participation from you guys as possible so don't be afraid to make your voices heard!

With this little project we want to get a lot of interaction from you all and hopefully bring the community here a little closer.

Check out the link and don't forget to click on the "RSVP" button at the bottom of the page. If you guys have any question you can ask me here. :)

http://www.vokle.com/series/15038-sosuave-dot-net-live

Edit: to Des or any of the other Mods, if you could sticky this post that would be awesome! thanks :)
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would very much like to join this, but do not know how :) ??

Can you give me a quick guide on how to use vokle?
 

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Very interesting, I will be tuning in and I'm sure I'd love to call in and give some feedback and give an urban insight on things.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good Idea I'll be on the look out
 

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I'd love to see this, but I can't imagine being able to be home that day to watch it.
Is there a way to stream the show afterwards somehow, or to download it? Or get it on YouTube or something?
 

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3pm eastern would be 5pm GMT +2? Please correct me if Im wrong.

Yes, please make it downloadable too.
 

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3pm Eastern is 12 am GMT+2, so you're nine hours ahead of us. If you go back to the link after the event is over you'll see the recorded video of it :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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CuriousGirl said:
What happens when you join it, you just listen and watch? Or can you be heard and seen via webcam?
When you click on the "JOIN EVENT" button on the link you can participate by asking live video and text questions if you wish. Or you can just watch the live video feed without participating in the live chat :)
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
When you click on the "JOIN EVENT" button on the link you can participate by asking live video and text questions if you wish. Or you can just watch the live video feed without participating in the live chat :)
Oh cool ok, that's annoying because I'd probably like to participate but I'm busy saturday night 9/10pm onwards and I think the time difference will mean it'll clash? I'll have to catch the recording.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hey guys great idea. i think that you guys should do a pod cast and upload it to itunes. but anyway.

i would really love to hear this but it's at 3 am my time and i will be sleeping. are you guys going to record it or something. that would be sick.

tho i MIGHT be up and thats a big might. cos nfl will be on at that time tho. GO GREEN BAY!
 

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Hey guys! Just reminding you to tune in tomorrow at 12pm Pacific 3pm Eastern where me and Rollo will be highlighting a few topics from the top 3 forums:

Discussion forum

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=187568
Topic started by dudeman99. He pretty much ask what it takes for girls
to like him. Sounds simple enough, but of course, we all know there's
a lot more to it. :)

Highschool forum

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=187213
Topic started by bdieu. Says a girl with a boyfriend flirts and wants
to know why. Might be because she's not loyal? Attention wh0re? We'll
get into it on the show.


Mature Men's
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=186956
Topic started by Karmasutra: A sosuave veteran who was vehemently
against marriage ends up getting engaged. This will probably be the
most interesting topic of the show and I'd like to get everyone's opinion on it!


Remember to click this link
http://www.vokle.com/series/15038-sosuave-dot-net-live


To participate, click the big red button that says "JOIN EVENT" at the lower left of the video. If you guys have anymore questions post them here! See you guys soon!
 

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Nice. Please make this downloadable later just in case I have to miss it tommorow - I'd like to listen to it eventually.
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
If you go back to the link after the event is over you'll see the recorded video of it :)
This doesn't seem to be the case. All I get is a message saying "Waiting for the host to begin event". Or is there some trick I'm missing?

Anyone record this to YouTube or is there some other way to watch it?
How did it go anyway?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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