"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sosuave is doing a LIVE broadcast September 10th! [merged]

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Hey guys! Just letting everyone here know that myself and Rollo Tomassi will be hosting sosuave's first ever live broadcast Saturday, the 10th of September.

We'll be discussing the most popular topics from this board as well as taking live video calls and text questions for whoever wants to join in. We want as much participation from you guys as possible so don't be afraid to make your voices heard!

With this little project we want to get a lot of interaction from you all and hopefully bring the community here a little closer.

Check out the link and don't forget to click on the "RSVP" button at the bottom of the page. If you guys have any question you can ask me here. :)

http://www.vokle.com/series/15038-sosuave-dot-net-live

Edit: to Des or any of the other Mods, if you could sticky this post that would be awesome! thanks :)
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I would very much like to join this, but do not know how :) ??

Can you give me a quick guide on how to use vokle?
 
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Very interesting, I will be tuning in and I'm sure I'd love to call in and give some feedback and give an urban insight on things.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good Idea I'll be on the look out
 
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I'd love to see this, but I can't imagine being able to be home that day to watch it.
Is there a way to stream the show afterwards somehow, or to download it? Or get it on YouTube or something?
 
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3pm eastern would be 5pm GMT +2? Please correct me if Im wrong.

Yes, please make it downloadable too.
 
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3pm Eastern is 12 am GMT+2, so you're nine hours ahead of us. If you go back to the link after the event is over you'll see the recorded video of it :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CuriousGirl said:
What happens when you join it, you just listen and watch? Or can you be heard and seen via webcam?
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When you click on the "JOIN EVENT" button on the link you can participate by asking live video and text questions if you wish. Or you can just watch the live video feed without participating in the live chat :)
 
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When you click on the "JOIN EVENT" button on the link you can participate by asking live video and text questions if you wish. Or you can just watch the live video feed without participating in the live chat :)
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Oh cool ok, that's annoying because I'd probably like to participate but I'm busy saturday night 9/10pm onwards and I think the time difference will mean it'll clash? I'll have to catch the recording.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hey guys great idea. i think that you guys should do a pod cast and upload it to itunes. but anyway.

i would really love to hear this but it's at 3 am my time and i will be sleeping. are you guys going to record it or something. that would be sick.

tho i MIGHT be up and thats a big might. cos nfl will be on at that time tho. GO GREEN BAY!
 
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Hey guys! Just reminding you to tune in tomorrow at 12pm Pacific 3pm Eastern where me and Rollo will be highlighting a few topics from the top 3 forums:

Discussion forum
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=187568
Topic started by dudeman99. He pretty much ask what it takes for girls
to like him. Sounds simple enough, but of course, we all know there's
a lot more to it. :)

Highschool forum
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=187213
Topic started by bdieu. Says a girl with a boyfriend flirts and wants
to know why. Might be because she's not loyal? Attention wh0re? We'll
get into it on the show.


Mature Men's
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=186956
Topic started by Karmasutra: A sosuave veteran who was vehemently
against marriage ends up getting engaged. This will probably be the
most interesting topic of the show and I'd like to get everyone's opinion on it!


Remember to click this link
http://www.vokle.com/series/15038-sosuave-dot-net-live


To participate, click the big red button that says "JOIN EVENT" at the lower left of the video. If you guys have anymore questions post them here! See you guys soon!
 
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Nice. Please make this downloadable later just in case I have to miss it tommorow - I'd like to listen to it eventually.
 
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ThunderMaverick said:
If you go back to the link after the event is over you'll see the recorded video of it :)
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This doesn't seem to be the case. All I get is a message saying "Waiting for the host to begin event". Or is there some trick I'm missing?

Anyone record this to YouTube or is there some other way to watch it?
How did it go anyway?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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