"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sosuave for girls?

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I'm curious if anyone knows of a site like this for girls attracting and dating guys ... or any site where young women (16-24) hang out and talk about guys and whatever else it is they talk about.

I'm a fiction writer, and would love to find a good site where I can listen in on girls conversations to improve my understanding, and thus my writing, characters and stories.

Also, any other fiction writers out there?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There doesn't need to be a sosuave for girls. All they need to do is look nice and they get the world handed to them. I wish I was a hot b!tch, they got life easy.
 

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Haha at above.
 

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Malice said:
There doesn't need to be a sosuave for girls. All they need to do is look nice and they get the world handed to them. I wish I was a hot b!tch, they got life easy.
Fvck... Aint that the truth.
Pfffft
*chokes on his coffee*
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Loveshack.org. Our resident bisexual feminist Gaylan will tell you all about it.
 

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Malice said:
There doesn't need to be a sosuave for girls. All they need to do is look nice and they get the world handed to them. I wish I was a hot b!tch, they got life easy.

I prefer freedom and independence. It's good being a man. There's probably some forum or website out there for women on teaching them how to be ladies. I think there's an overabundance of women but an extreme shortage of ladies. Also, you might be surprised how many women wind up just settling. A lot of men do the same thing. Just settle for whoever is there.

The negative of being a woman is putting up with people you don't have interest in, trying their weak, lame attempts at picking you up. I bet that would get old. Men and women have their own challenges to deal with.
 

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First things first:

Also, any other fiction writers out there?
:yes: , me. At least i do my best.

I'm a fiction writer, and would love to find a good site where I can listen in on girls conversations to improve my understanding, and thus my writing, characters and stories.
If you haven't already i would read and watch Shakespeare plays at first. The world looks so different after reading Shakespeare. Its all about the nature of Humans and their inner motivations. The characters are all unique and basically act on some form of being hurt. The glimpse in the human soul, yin and yang, i got from shakespeare is invaluable.


SPOILER AHEAD! I would advice everyone to read or watch the full plays first before clicking, on the other hand its still only advice and i won't stop all the dirty wanker hands from going there.
"Or, if thou wilt needs marry, marry a fool; for wise men know well enough what monsters you make of them" Hamlet (3.1.138-140).

If anyone has problems with jealousy. Read Othello.


Back to the topic, it would be really nice to eavesdrop female conversations. Especially those when they think that no male is listening.

Have you found the links posted from those above to be of good resources? One says my IP is banned, gotta check on that ;D
 

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Sosuave for girls is glamor and the whole fashion industry. The rules of the game are pretty easy:

1) Look fabulous
2) Move to big city
3) Go to coffee shops and glamorous places
4) Date only rich men
5) F@ck only rich men

and I'm pretty sure there is a rule to have the latest iphone with fuzzy sh1t hanging on it
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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