"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sosuave for girls?

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I'm curious if anyone knows of a site like this for girls attracting and dating guys ... or any site where young women (16-24) hang out and talk about guys and whatever else it is they talk about.

I'm a fiction writer, and would love to find a good site where I can listen in on girls conversations to improve my understanding, and thus my writing, characters and stories.

Also, any other fiction writers out there?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There doesn't need to be a sosuave for girls. All they need to do is look nice and they get the world handed to them. I wish I was a hot b!tch, they got life easy.
 

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Haha at above.
 

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Malice said:
There doesn't need to be a sosuave for girls. All they need to do is look nice and they get the world handed to them. I wish I was a hot b!tch, they got life easy.
Fvck... Aint that the truth.
Pfffft
*chokes on his coffee*
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Loveshack.org. Our resident bisexual feminist Gaylan will tell you all about it.
 

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Malice said:
There doesn't need to be a sosuave for girls. All they need to do is look nice and they get the world handed to them. I wish I was a hot b!tch, they got life easy.

I prefer freedom and independence. It's good being a man. There's probably some forum or website out there for women on teaching them how to be ladies. I think there's an overabundance of women but an extreme shortage of ladies. Also, you might be surprised how many women wind up just settling. A lot of men do the same thing. Just settle for whoever is there.

The negative of being a woman is putting up with people you don't have interest in, trying their weak, lame attempts at picking you up. I bet that would get old. Men and women have their own challenges to deal with.
 

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First things first:

Also, any other fiction writers out there?
:yes: , me. At least i do my best.

I'm a fiction writer, and would love to find a good site where I can listen in on girls conversations to improve my understanding, and thus my writing, characters and stories.
If you haven't already i would read and watch Shakespeare plays at first. The world looks so different after reading Shakespeare. Its all about the nature of Humans and their inner motivations. The characters are all unique and basically act on some form of being hurt. The glimpse in the human soul, yin and yang, i got from shakespeare is invaluable.


SPOILER AHEAD! I would advice everyone to read or watch the full plays first before clicking, on the other hand its still only advice and i won't stop all the dirty wanker hands from going there.
"Or, if thou wilt needs marry, marry a fool; for wise men know well enough what monsters you make of them" Hamlet (3.1.138-140).

If anyone has problems with jealousy. Read Othello.


Back to the topic, it would be really nice to eavesdrop female conversations. Especially those when they think that no male is listening.

Have you found the links posted from those above to be of good resources? One says my IP is banned, gotta check on that ;D
 

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Sosuave for girls is glamor and the whole fashion industry. The rules of the game are pretty easy:

1) Look fabulous
2) Move to big city
3) Go to coffee shops and glamorous places
4) Date only rich men
5) F@ck only rich men

and I'm pretty sure there is a rule to have the latest iphone with fuzzy sh1t hanging on it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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