"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sosuave for girls?

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I'm curious if anyone knows of a site like this for girls attracting and dating guys ... or any site where young women (16-24) hang out and talk about guys and whatever else it is they talk about.

I'm a fiction writer, and would love to find a good site where I can listen in on girls conversations to improve my understanding, and thus my writing, characters and stories.

Also, any other fiction writers out there?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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There doesn't need to be a sosuave for girls. All they need to do is look nice and they get the world handed to them. I wish I was a hot b!tch, they got life easy.
 

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Haha at above.
 

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Malice said:
There doesn't need to be a sosuave for girls. All they need to do is look nice and they get the world handed to them. I wish I was a hot b!tch, they got life easy.
Fvck... Aint that the truth.
Pfffft
*chokes on his coffee*
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Loveshack.org. Our resident bisexual feminist Gaylan will tell you all about it.
 

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Malice said:
There doesn't need to be a sosuave for girls. All they need to do is look nice and they get the world handed to them. I wish I was a hot b!tch, they got life easy.

I prefer freedom and independence. It's good being a man. There's probably some forum or website out there for women on teaching them how to be ladies. I think there's an overabundance of women but an extreme shortage of ladies. Also, you might be surprised how many women wind up just settling. A lot of men do the same thing. Just settle for whoever is there.

The negative of being a woman is putting up with people you don't have interest in, trying their weak, lame attempts at picking you up. I bet that would get old. Men and women have their own challenges to deal with.
 

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First things first:

Also, any other fiction writers out there?
:yes: , me. At least i do my best.

I'm a fiction writer, and would love to find a good site where I can listen in on girls conversations to improve my understanding, and thus my writing, characters and stories.
If you haven't already i would read and watch Shakespeare plays at first. The world looks so different after reading Shakespeare. Its all about the nature of Humans and their inner motivations. The characters are all unique and basically act on some form of being hurt. The glimpse in the human soul, yin and yang, i got from shakespeare is invaluable.


SPOILER AHEAD! I would advice everyone to read or watch the full plays first before clicking, on the other hand its still only advice and i won't stop all the dirty wanker hands from going there.
"Or, if thou wilt needs marry, marry a fool; for wise men know well enough what monsters you make of them" Hamlet (3.1.138-140).

If anyone has problems with jealousy. Read Othello.


Back to the topic, it would be really nice to eavesdrop female conversations. Especially those when they think that no male is listening.

Have you found the links posted from those above to be of good resources? One says my IP is banned, gotta check on that ;D
 

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Sosuave for girls is glamor and the whole fashion industry. The rules of the game are pretty easy:

1) Look fabulous
2) Move to big city
3) Go to coffee shops and glamorous places
4) Date only rich men
5) F@ck only rich men

and I'm pretty sure there is a rule to have the latest iphone with fuzzy sh1t hanging on it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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