"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sosuave Comminity Cheating Facts | Survey
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Don't feel bad. Mine technically would not have been shared either and thus I didn't even put it as one of the choices. Mine would have been:wishyo said:
"I was FOR SURE cheated on by a woman I married and thought was my wife but then I found out she was a bigamist and married to TWO other dudes in TWO other States so we had an annulment and thus were never lawfully married under Illinois law"
I choose the "While in a LTR I was FOR SURE cheated on" which was really accurate too. Sense we were not lawfully married I am not bound to ever call her my "ex wife". I hear through the grapevine that she still calls me her "ex husband" though. I always correct anyone who refers to her as my ex wife.
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My purpose to this survey is to :
- See how our SS community compares to media saying 50% and 60% of married women cheat. We are digging further though..LTR cheating counts too here.
- Have some good fun and discussion. I hope everyone responds to this. In fact I would love to hear from more guys confident they have never been cheated on and restore some faith in women for all of us.. Isn't that what we all want???? Will it happen? Likely not.. BUT, "logicallefty" is just as much "objectivelefty"..
let's hear it guys.. Please respond if you have not already..
zekko
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Tictac is completely right here. There's nothing wrong with the survey per se, but it won't reveal what percentage of women cheat. It will reveal what percentage of guys on the forum get cheated on. Most guys on here will have dated numerous women, and some may even have been married more than once. A guy might have dated 20 women and maybe one might have cheated on him.Tictac said:
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Cheated countless times from girls I was dating if it can be called cheating, I've been the early night guy while someone was the late one doing the fvcking while I had the making out at the most.
Had plenty of girls wasting my time while fvcking others, that happened and I know almost for sure.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Thank you for being gay..wishyo said:"I am gay and don't date women." lol
I always thank every gay man I meet. Why?
Cuz that leaves more free women for me.
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Posters that are in constant search of threads to fuel their confirmation bias. :yes:noobolgy said:
"most" is the key word here. And I'm not sure if I'd go that far.noobolgy said:
I agree. And it's a thread that could give the opportunity for the guys who haven't, or rarely, been cheated on to tell their side. Most of the time it's the guys that have been cheated on who are the ones speaking up, which isn't bad, but it's only one perspective.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.