"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sosuave and ''other PUA or improvement sites''

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Like most here.... I came to find answer from ''getting back into the game'' after a challenge/disaster/or a LTR.

I got in the PUA sites but I find them dead.... like puaforums etc.... they have like 1 post a month.

SoSuave so far is the most active and in part with the other websites ''lessons'' although I found interesting stuff in the others that improved my game that I have yet to see here (and btw, I only read the current news or post of the day.... no backtrack)

So what are the other websites you guys go or find useful to find similar information ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I agree it is the best. I have not looked at much else but here though.
I can recommend some things. Not websites... But there are references you should read. They are related to this site though.
The DJ bible being an accumulation of some of the best knowledge given on this forum.
Oh, and the Book of Pook. I strongly suggest you read it. Not everyone here loves Pook, I have some disagreements with a few of his ideas. But he truly understands the mentality of women, and for him it is less about PUA than being about the self and making oneself better (which ultimately leads to more success with women). It is very well written and a easy read...
http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/07/book-of-pook.html

I can recommend a few books and other things perhaps... But I found most PUA forums are filled with pvssy beggars and men who value themselves based on women which is pathetic. Oh, and do not listen too much to those famous PUAs like Mystery and them, I found too much of their advice to not be very pragmatic nor useful.
 
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Yeah, it's like I could be plateless, and still find this site entertaining and enlightening.
And, from a business perspective, it helps to see society for what it really is.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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RSD has a very active message board, which I find entertaining. This forum is the best though, because the general philosophy puts the focus on yourself rather than women.
 
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If you don't vote for Trump you are a BETA PU55Y, haha just kidding. I really like this site, it helped to realize the adrenaline rush of the approach. Confidence is King. Let us be Ourselves.
 
Glumix

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Only board I browse is SS.

Others are invaded by women and the horde of betas following them.

I read a few articles on the attractioninstitute.com website lately and found them good but their forum is invaded.

Some of those forums are even moderated by women... I hope this will never happens here.
 
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OP- This isn't a PUA forum or anything like one.

Being a DJ is about changing who you are- PUA is about PRETENDING to be something you're not.

DJs improve themselves, PUAs are betas faking it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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