"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sosuave and ''other PUA or improvement sites''

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Like most here.... I came to find answer from ''getting back into the game'' after a challenge/disaster/or a LTR.

I got in the PUA sites but I find them dead.... like puaforums etc.... they have like 1 post a month.

SoSuave so far is the most active and in part with the other websites ''lessons'' although I found interesting stuff in the others that improved my game that I have yet to see here (and btw, I only read the current news or post of the day.... no backtrack)

So what are the other websites you guys go or find useful to find similar information ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I agree it is the best. I have not looked at much else but here though.
I can recommend some things. Not websites... But there are references you should read. They are related to this site though.
The DJ bible being an accumulation of some of the best knowledge given on this forum.
Oh, and the Book of Pook. I strongly suggest you read it. Not everyone here loves Pook, I have some disagreements with a few of his ideas. But he truly understands the mentality of women, and for him it is less about PUA than being about the self and making oneself better (which ultimately leads to more success with women). It is very well written and a easy read...
http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/07/book-of-pook.html

I can recommend a few books and other things perhaps... But I found most PUA forums are filled with pvssy beggars and men who value themselves based on women which is pathetic. Oh, and do not listen too much to those famous PUAs like Mystery and them, I found too much of their advice to not be very pragmatic nor useful.
 

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Yeah, it's like I could be plateless, and still find this site entertaining and enlightening.
And, from a business perspective, it helps to see society for what it really is.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RSD has a very active message board, which I find entertaining. This forum is the best though, because the general philosophy puts the focus on yourself rather than women.
 

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If you don't vote for Trump you are a BETA PU55Y, haha just kidding. I really like this site, it helped to realize the adrenaline rush of the approach. Confidence is King. Let us be Ourselves.
 

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Only board I browse is SS.

Others are invaded by women and the horde of betas following them.

I read a few articles on the attractioninstitute.com website lately and found them good but their forum is invaded.

Some of those forums are even moderated by women... I hope this will never happens here.
 

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OP- This isn't a PUA forum or anything like one.

Being a DJ is about changing who you are- PUA is about PRETENDING to be something you're not.

DJs improve themselves, PUAs are betas faking it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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