"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sosuave and ''other PUA or improvement sites''

Von

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Like most here.... I came to find answer from ''getting back into the game'' after a challenge/disaster/or a LTR.

I got in the PUA sites but I find them dead.... like puaforums etc.... they have like 1 post a month.

SoSuave so far is the most active and in part with the other websites ''lessons'' although I found interesting stuff in the others that improved my game that I have yet to see here (and btw, I only read the current news or post of the day.... no backtrack)

So what are the other websites you guys go or find useful to find similar information ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I agree it is the best. I have not looked at much else but here though.
I can recommend some things. Not websites... But there are references you should read. They are related to this site though.
The DJ bible being an accumulation of some of the best knowledge given on this forum.
Oh, and the Book of Pook. I strongly suggest you read it. Not everyone here loves Pook, I have some disagreements with a few of his ideas. But he truly understands the mentality of women, and for him it is less about PUA than being about the self and making oneself better (which ultimately leads to more success with women). It is very well written and a easy read...
http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/07/book-of-pook.html

I can recommend a few books and other things perhaps... But I found most PUA forums are filled with pvssy beggars and men who value themselves based on women which is pathetic. Oh, and do not listen too much to those famous PUAs like Mystery and them, I found too much of their advice to not be very pragmatic nor useful.
 
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Yeah, it's like I could be plateless, and still find this site entertaining and enlightening.
And, from a business perspective, it helps to see society for what it really is.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zekko

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RSD has a very active message board, which I find entertaining. This forum is the best though, because the general philosophy puts the focus on yourself rather than women.
 
f(x)

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If you don't vote for Trump you are a BETA PU55Y, haha just kidding. I really like this site, it helped to realize the adrenaline rush of the approach. Confidence is King. Let us be Ourselves.
 
Glumix

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Only board I browse is SS.

Others are invaded by women and the horde of betas following them.

I read a few articles on the attractioninstitute.com website lately and found them good but their forum is invaded.

Some of those forums are even moderated by women... I hope this will never happens here.
 
Lozboss

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OP- This isn't a PUA forum or anything like one.

Being a DJ is about changing who you are- PUA is about PRETENDING to be something you're not.

DJs improve themselves, PUAs are betas faking it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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