"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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QuezNozet

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I guess you can use the "3 Second Rule"

"The "3 seconds rule" was coined by Mystery (more info at MysteryMethod.com), a PUA and regular poster on ASF. The point of the 3s rule is to propel you to approach women fast enough to keep your internal voice from talking you out of it and avoid hesitation. You do not want a woman to see you hesitate. The longer you hesitate, the more insecure and sappy you appear. Also, hesitation creates an added sense of nervousness to your mental state - a personality trait you do not want to portray when approaching women."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hawkeyes85

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"I Fully accept this as a part of my life and Picking up girls is a hobby."

I will go out 4 days a week however I will be similar to asdfghjkl (post #4). Mostly because I go to a school where the ratio is in my favor.

I will approach 2 sets a day.

I was planning on starting the bootcamp today (Jan 2) when I found this thread. My driving force will be the lack of girls I've dated and also my best friend becoming engaged to a total B##H! I see a lot of myself in him and that's what I don't want to happen to me. (learn from other's mistakes??)

Can't wait for this to start......

Hawkeyes
 

phoenix_met

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Hey buddies,
I've made a convinent list for myself.(My biggest problem is forgetting the things i learn hear when i see a hot girl).So i take out some good advices from the articles and write them down on a notebook call dating-notebook.So I can study them any time.
sample:
1)You just approach to learn something new(look it as a training)
2)Do it as a fun

3)Always SMILE
4)Fix the body language(You are james bond or the master of universe)

5)Make eye contact(very important)
6)Do not hesitate and obey the 3 second rule(tell yourself grow some balls")
7)Confuse her with your attitude(You are the great catch-don't be as same as last 99 men)
8)C&F

9)Nothing will happen if a stuiped girld reject you(She miss the oppertunity)
10)Skip it and go to next one

I've also posted this as a new thread
 

Snow Plowman

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I used to have the same problem. Just recently I started worrying about practicing bits by bits, that way all the techniques become apart of me. This week of just warming up for next week has been great and been very eye opening. Can't wait until monday!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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