"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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QuezNozet

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I guess you can use the "3 Second Rule"

"The "3 seconds rule" was coined by Mystery (more info at MysteryMethod.com), a PUA and regular poster on ASF. The point of the 3s rule is to propel you to approach women fast enough to keep your internal voice from talking you out of it and avoid hesitation. You do not want a woman to see you hesitate. The longer you hesitate, the more insecure and sappy you appear. Also, hesitation creates an added sense of nervousness to your mental state - a personality trait you do not want to portray when approaching women."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hawkeyes85

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"I Fully accept this as a part of my life and Picking up girls is a hobby."

I will go out 4 days a week however I will be similar to asdfghjkl (post #4). Mostly because I go to a school where the ratio is in my favor.

I will approach 2 sets a day.

I was planning on starting the bootcamp today (Jan 2) when I found this thread. My driving force will be the lack of girls I've dated and also my best friend becoming engaged to a total B##H! I see a lot of myself in him and that's what I don't want to happen to me. (learn from other's mistakes??)

Can't wait for this to start......

Hawkeyes
 

phoenix_met

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Hey buddies,
I've made a convinent list for myself.(My biggest problem is forgetting the things i learn hear when i see a hot girl).So i take out some good advices from the articles and write them down on a notebook call dating-notebook.So I can study them any time.
sample:
1)You just approach to learn something new(look it as a training)
2)Do it as a fun

3)Always SMILE
4)Fix the body language(You are james bond or the master of universe)

5)Make eye contact(very important)
6)Do not hesitate and obey the 3 second rule(tell yourself grow some balls")
7)Confuse her with your attitude(You are the great catch-don't be as same as last 99 men)
8)C&F

9)Nothing will happen if a stuiped girld reject you(She miss the oppertunity)
10)Skip it and go to next one

I've also posted this as a new thread
 

Snow Plowman

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I used to have the same problem. Just recently I started worrying about practicing bits by bits, that way all the techniques become apart of me. This week of just warming up for next week has been great and been very eye opening. Can't wait until monday!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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