You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When you close in the business world, you make a sale.whosthat said:and what is when you close
Lol, love it.squirrels said:A "PUA" is a guy who posts on Internet forums about not being able to get women.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bwahaha!squirrels said:An "AFC" is a guy who can't get women.
A "PUA" is a guy who posts on Internet forums about not being able to get women.
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wait_out said:
Internet guys studying pickup stuff. A fair number of these guys are engineers, computer/IT guys, etc. So technical terms, codes, and acronyms are what they are comfortable with. As an electrical engineer, I'm guilty as charged lol.whosthat said:whats a "cold" approach
It's approaching a female or group of females you don't know.
whats HB
Hot babe. How hot depends on the number after it. A chick who is an 8 out of 10 in looks is a HB8.
whats kino?
Touching. Ever touch a chick's arm when making a point? That's kino. Ever put your hand on her lower back? That's kino too.
oneitis?
Getting too hung up on one female.
who came up with all these unheard of lingos?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.