"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey everyone. I reached my goal as you all know. Anyways, I played tennis for 4 hours the other day. It felt great. Then...I tried to get out of bed, and I couldn't. I thought I was paralyzed, but I was just really REALLY sore. Hell, my ass is sore and basically whenever I move, it hurts. Dunno wtf is up. Any advice on how to treat this ****? I'm laying off the workouts for a while though, cuz I read on this site that you should give your muscles time to REBUILD before breaking them down. thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ Bishop

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lol... I can feel your pain. I just ran 3 miles this morning for the first time in almost a week, and I'm feeling it. As for your soreness, drink lots of water, and don't overexert yourself. When you feel as though you're able to keep up exercising, go ahead and do so. It's natural for you to be sore - what you've done when you worked out (tennis, to be specific) was to cut tiny tears into your muscles, which in a few days will have solidified once again, thus increasing your muscle mass. When you have a solid routine going, you'll do upper body 1 day, lower body the next - always allowing 48 hours for each to heal. This is, of course, a very brief and inadequete explanation - more can be found on about.com or elsewhere. Or perhaps by speaking to any personal trainer.
 

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I don't think that they'll mess your muscles up... but just continue working out and (as mentioned) stretching. Soreness is a natural feeling when you begin pushing yourself past your current limits. Get used to it. :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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