"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey everyone. I reached my goal as you all know. Anyways, I played tennis for 4 hours the other day. It felt great. Then...I tried to get out of bed, and I couldn't. I thought I was paralyzed, but I was just really REALLY sore. Hell, my ass is sore and basically whenever I move, it hurts. Dunno wtf is up. Any advice on how to treat this ****? I'm laying off the workouts for a while though, cuz I read on this site that you should give your muscles time to REBUILD before breaking them down. thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lol... I can feel your pain. I just ran 3 miles this morning for the first time in almost a week, and I'm feeling it. As for your soreness, drink lots of water, and don't overexert yourself. When you feel as though you're able to keep up exercising, go ahead and do so. It's natural for you to be sore - what you've done when you worked out (tennis, to be specific) was to cut tiny tears into your muscles, which in a few days will have solidified once again, thus increasing your muscle mass. When you have a solid routine going, you'll do upper body 1 day, lower body the next - always allowing 48 hours for each to heal. This is, of course, a very brief and inadequete explanation - more can be found on about.com or elsewhere. Or perhaps by speaking to any personal trainer.
 

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I don't think that they'll mess your muscles up... but just continue working out and (as mentioned) stretching. Soreness is a natural feeling when you begin pushing yourself past your current limits. Get used to it. :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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