Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Malibu. Very good choice man. That place is pristine with honies and stars alike. But you better get ripped to even have a chance. Come visit me down in Newport Beach when you come out here.Originally posted by Celadus
I think you meant don't listen to hardrock. I did sets of 12, 10,8, and 6. If I did that I'm definitely not lifting too much weight. Its because I took a long break and this is the first time I'm going to lift seriously.
Going to live in Malibu, CA or LA this summer and get the hell out of VA. Need a body for CA.
First of all, it sounds like your routine is a piece of ****.Originally posted by Celadus
I think you meant don't listen to hardrock. I did sets of 12, 10,8, and 6. If I did that I'm definitely not lifting too much weight. Its because I took a long break and this is the first time I'm going to lift seriously.
Going to live in Malibu, CA or LA this summer and get the hell out of VA. Need a body for CA.