"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sooooooo, how do I get over this...

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OK so I finally got to the point where I get no emotions when approaching girls. But still something blocks me from approaching when I'm out with my friends and see an attractive girl... Those are the kind of friends that can't even think of approaching women (as 80% of people can't)...

How do I get over this block? I would especially appreciate an advice from someone with the same experience who got over it successfuly.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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reyalp

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"She's just a woman"
 
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El MonoLoco

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Be a show off to your friends....Showing them up by approaching a hottie will make you feel better about doing....makes you more confident.....Show um you got the balls that they should develop....then you can all wing together
 
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Pakwah

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I'll play a game with my friend where we come up to a chick together and one of us asks if we can have a dance, phone number, etc....

We normally will ride 20-50 bucks on the first person who can get 10 rejections, the other one is there to keep track.

So the point is you want them to say no....win the cash...and any yeses' are just bonuses.

No pressure....look at it is wanting them to say no, its funny cuz sometimes when one wins, we will celebrate and the ladies have no idea what the ---- just happened.

just make sure you guys keep it looking as straight as possible, you dont what no one thinking your gay when a girl turns you down.....
 
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Tomatoes

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Treat em as wingmen not friends. (Wingmen are friends)

I have the same problem. I know that approaching with your friends there is hard because if you get rejected they will laugh right? Well at least you had the balls to try....More than them.

What i do is I will point out a girl. Comment on how fit she is then bet a mate.....friendly or money on who can pull her. Me or him. No one is a null bet. I will be the first in there. If there is compertition you will want to succeed more. Its natural. I did this a few weeks back. Me and my wing went for the same girl knowing it was fair game who got her. I pulled out my game skills on her. By the end of the night i was back at her place shagging...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Gain confidence!!! Know who you are and you can approach woman.
 
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half of the people who answered didn't seem to read my post carefully, but anyways, thanks for the input ;)
 
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