"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sooooooo, how do I get over this...

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OK so I finally got to the point where I get no emotions when approaching girls. But still something blocks me from approaching when I'm out with my friends and see an attractive girl... Those are the kind of friends that can't even think of approaching women (as 80% of people can't)...

How do I get over this block? I would especially appreciate an advice from someone with the same experience who got over it successfuly.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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reyalp

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"She's just a woman"
 
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El MonoLoco

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Be a show off to your friends....Showing them up by approaching a hottie will make you feel better about doing....makes you more confident.....Show um you got the balls that they should develop....then you can all wing together
 
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Pakwah

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I'll play a game with my friend where we come up to a chick together and one of us asks if we can have a dance, phone number, etc....

We normally will ride 20-50 bucks on the first person who can get 10 rejections, the other one is there to keep track.

So the point is you want them to say no....win the cash...and any yeses' are just bonuses.

No pressure....look at it is wanting them to say no, its funny cuz sometimes when one wins, we will celebrate and the ladies have no idea what the ---- just happened.

just make sure you guys keep it looking as straight as possible, you dont what no one thinking your gay when a girl turns you down.....
 
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Treat em as wingmen not friends. (Wingmen are friends)

I have the same problem. I know that approaching with your friends there is hard because if you get rejected they will laugh right? Well at least you had the balls to try....More than them.

What i do is I will point out a girl. Comment on how fit she is then bet a mate.....friendly or money on who can pull her. Me or him. No one is a null bet. I will be the first in there. If there is compertition you will want to succeed more. Its natural. I did this a few weeks back. Me and my wing went for the same girl knowing it was fair game who got her. I pulled out my game skills on her. By the end of the night i was back at her place shagging...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gain confidence!!! Know who you are and you can approach woman.
 
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half of the people who answered didn't seem to read my post carefully, but anyways, thanks for the input ;)
 
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