"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sooooooo, how do I get over this...

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OK so I finally got to the point where I get no emotions when approaching girls. But still something blocks me from approaching when I'm out with my friends and see an attractive girl... Those are the kind of friends that can't even think of approaching women (as 80% of people can't)...

How do I get over this block? I would especially appreciate an advice from someone with the same experience who got over it successfuly.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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reyalp

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"She's just a woman"
 
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El MonoLoco

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Be a show off to your friends....Showing them up by approaching a hottie will make you feel better about doing....makes you more confident.....Show um you got the balls that they should develop....then you can all wing together
 
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Pakwah

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I'll play a game with my friend where we come up to a chick together and one of us asks if we can have a dance, phone number, etc....

We normally will ride 20-50 bucks on the first person who can get 10 rejections, the other one is there to keep track.

So the point is you want them to say no....win the cash...and any yeses' are just bonuses.

No pressure....look at it is wanting them to say no, its funny cuz sometimes when one wins, we will celebrate and the ladies have no idea what the ---- just happened.

just make sure you guys keep it looking as straight as possible, you dont what no one thinking your gay when a girl turns you down.....
 
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Treat em as wingmen not friends. (Wingmen are friends)

I have the same problem. I know that approaching with your friends there is hard because if you get rejected they will laugh right? Well at least you had the balls to try....More than them.

What i do is I will point out a girl. Comment on how fit she is then bet a mate.....friendly or money on who can pull her. Me or him. No one is a null bet. I will be the first in there. If there is compertition you will want to succeed more. Its natural. I did this a few weeks back. Me and my wing went for the same girl knowing it was fair game who got her. I pulled out my game skills on her. By the end of the night i was back at her place shagging...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gain confidence!!! Know who you are and you can approach woman.
 
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half of the people who answered didn't seem to read my post carefully, but anyways, thanks for the input ;)
 
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