"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm going through a divorce, and joined a dating site just to chat to women.
However one woman has contacted me and despite my profile saying I'm not ready for dating ,she kept hinting that I don't live far from her and then basically said she could be the distraction I need .
We have texted each other quite a lot ,but she seems very needy, should I avoid her at all costs or just let her know that I'm after sex and nothing more .or just have fun and see how it goes
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"distraction" = female codeword for casual sex

She knows you aren't "looking for anything" and is subtly telling you that is ok. Do not mention the casual piece again. She gets it.

Strike while the iron is hot.

But understand that she could still change her mind and flake. That can always happen, but have fun and try.
 
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WTID said:
should I avoid her at all costs or just let her know that I'm after sex and nothing more .or just have fun and see how it goes
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Mike32ct said:
"distraction" = female codeword for casual sex

She knows you aren't "looking for anything" and is subtly telling you that is ok. Do not mention the casual piece again. She gets it.

Move on this one.

But understand that she could still change her mind and flake. That can always happen, but have fun and try.
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Seriously. Everything about the description of how she's treating you screams that she's just looking for some new d!ck.

Maybe this broad isn't wife material, but hey, you might as well knock off the cobwebs and get back into the world of casual sex.
 
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