“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm going through a divorce, and joined a dating site just to chat to women.
However one woman has contacted me and despite my profile saying I'm not ready for dating ,she kept hinting that I don't live far from her and then basically said she could be the distraction I need .
We have texted each other quite a lot ,but she seems very needy, should I avoid her at all costs or just let her know that I'm after sex and nothing more .or just have fun and see how it goes
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"distraction" = female codeword for casual sex

She knows you aren't "looking for anything" and is subtly telling you that is ok. Do not mention the casual piece again. She gets it.

Strike while the iron is hot.

But understand that she could still change her mind and flake. That can always happen, but have fun and try.
 
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WTID said:
should I avoid her at all costs or just let her know that I'm after sex and nothing more .or just have fun and see how it goes
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Mike32ct said:
"distraction" = female codeword for casual sex

She knows you aren't "looking for anything" and is subtly telling you that is ok. Do not mention the casual piece again. She gets it.

Move on this one.

But understand that she could still change her mind and flake. That can always happen, but have fun and try.
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Seriously. Everything about the description of how she's treating you screams that she's just looking for some new d!ck.

Maybe this broad isn't wife material, but hey, you might as well knock off the cobwebs and get back into the world of casual sex.
 
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