"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm going through a divorce, and joined a dating site just to chat to women.
However one woman has contacted me and despite my profile saying I'm not ready for dating ,she kept hinting that I don't live far from her and then basically said she could be the distraction I need .
We have texted each other quite a lot ,but she seems very needy, should I avoid her at all costs or just let her know that I'm after sex and nothing more .or just have fun and see how it goes
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"distraction" = female codeword for casual sex

She knows you aren't "looking for anything" and is subtly telling you that is ok. Do not mention the casual piece again. She gets it.

Strike while the iron is hot.

But understand that she could still change her mind and flake. That can always happen, but have fun and try.
 
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WTID said:
should I avoid her at all costs or just let her know that I'm after sex and nothing more .or just have fun and see how it goes
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Mike32ct said:
"distraction" = female codeword for casual sex

She knows you aren't "looking for anything" and is subtly telling you that is ok. Do not mention the casual piece again. She gets it.

Move on this one.

But understand that she could still change her mind and flake. That can always happen, but have fun and try.
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Seriously. Everything about the description of how she's treating you screams that she's just looking for some new d!ck.

Maybe this broad isn't wife material, but hey, you might as well knock off the cobwebs and get back into the world of casual sex.
 
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