Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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WTID

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I'm going through a divorce, and joined a dating site just to chat to women.
However one woman has contacted me and despite my profile saying I'm not ready for dating ,she kept hinting that I don't live far from her and then basically said she could be the distraction I need .
We have texted each other quite a lot ,but she seems very needy, should I avoid her at all costs or just let her know that I'm after sex and nothing more .or just have fun and see how it goes
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mike32ct

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"distraction" = female codeword for casual sex

She knows you aren't "looking for anything" and is subtly telling you that is ok. Do not mention the casual piece again. She gets it.

Strike while the iron is hot.

But understand that she could still change her mind and flake. That can always happen, but have fun and try.
 

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WTID said:
should I avoid her at all costs or just let her know that I'm after sex and nothing more .or just have fun and see how it goes
Mike32ct said:
"distraction" = female codeword for casual sex

She knows you aren't "looking for anything" and is subtly telling you that is ok. Do not mention the casual piece again. She gets it.

Move on this one.

But understand that she could still change her mind and flake. That can always happen, but have fun and try.

Seriously. Everything about the description of how she's treating you screams that she's just looking for some new d!ck.

Maybe this broad isn't wife material, but hey, you might as well knock off the cobwebs and get back into the world of casual sex.
 
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