"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yo men! Which are your favourite songs in terms of how the lyrics talk about this man life?
I personally love "My way" and "Avrai"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hi Johny,
For real Mens Songs I go To Peter Dawson singing Kipling Songs like "Mandalay"...For I've a Maid who's neat and Sweeter,
In a green and pleasant land.
or "Danny Deever"
All the young recruits are shakin'
an' they've earned their beer tonight
After hanging Danny Deever in the morning".
 

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I'd say a going classic that seems to hit all those topics is "Cat's in the cradle." Other honorable mentions are "I'm Tryin'", "Count bodies like sheep to the rhythm of the war drums", and "Freedom of choice."
 

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This is controversial:
John Mayer is one of my favourite artists in terms of "How the music He produce, sound"
I love the instrumentals.

But
, when you look closely at what content He have built his career on, it's actually an artist venerating his multiple oneitis.
He made incredible masterpieces (I don't like the lyrics at all), with the help of his "love" towards all the women he never forget.
That shows how weak He is, and how many men out there would listen to this kind of music without understanding the message.

I think the medium it's just the difference here, because there are also many other famous artits that have made their fortune, their career, based on that, but the message it's always the same, shared by painters, sculptors, musicians, etc

Btw, this latest song actually make it clear

Curious about what you think.
 

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Curious about what you think.
I like the rhythm, tone, and overall song. never heard it before.

music follows our mind and our mind follows our music. lots of cultures developed chants just for this reasons.

think... how do you feel after listening to a few tracks. is that how you want to feel.

same message; different feel.

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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