"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jhonny9546

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Yo men! Which are your favourite songs in terms of how the lyrics talk about this man life?
I personally love "My way" and "Avrai"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hi Johny,
For real Mens Songs I go To Peter Dawson singing Kipling Songs like "Mandalay"...For I've a Maid who's neat and Sweeter,
In a green and pleasant land.
or "Danny Deever"
All the young recruits are shakin'
an' they've earned their beer tonight
After hanging Danny Deever in the morning".
 

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I'd say a going classic that seems to hit all those topics is "Cat's in the cradle." Other honorable mentions are "I'm Tryin'", "Count bodies like sheep to the rhythm of the war drums", and "Freedom of choice."
 

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This is controversial:
John Mayer is one of my favourite artists in terms of "How the music He produce, sound"
I love the instrumentals.

But
, when you look closely at what content He have built his career on, it's actually an artist venerating his multiple oneitis.
He made incredible masterpieces (I don't like the lyrics at all), with the help of his "love" towards all the women he never forget.
That shows how weak He is, and how many men out there would listen to this kind of music without understanding the message.

I think the medium it's just the difference here, because there are also many other famous artits that have made their fortune, their career, based on that, but the message it's always the same, shared by painters, sculptors, musicians, etc

Btw, this latest song actually make it clear

Curious about what you think.
 
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