"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sometimes you just can win

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Smetimes I really think you just cant win.
You try to do everything rightand I mean right.
I hav'nt acted needy,I've never called,chased.I've never bought gifts.I flirt lots,loads,she flirts back I flirt more.Theres kino,lots of kino.I tease her,dont give her an inch to get any wuss behaviour from me.She more or less begs for attention.She demands me to say shes attractive.I tell her shes a 5 at best,maybe a 6 after I've had 12 beers.I stay confident,aloof and well in control.I flirt with other women infront of her,she criticises so I flirt with the least attractive I can find.
And what happens.I get dumped in the friend zone.How did it happenI wish I knew.
She says I'm one of her closest friends now,she'll never sleep with me & she even thinks I'd make a good gay.
Sometimes a man just cant win.I'm resigning. Maybe just for a while.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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toasttopper1879 said:
She demands me to say shes attractive.I tell her shes a 5 at best,maybe a 6 after I've had 12 beers.
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Holy crap. I'm all about "neg-hitting," but it seems that something like this would be nothing more than an insult unless your delivery and the rapport that you had leading up to it was perfect. Her reaction to all of the above was probably her way of protecting herself and trying to claw back some of her dignity after putting herself out there and scrambling for your attention.
 
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Shes desperate for me to say I'd sleep with her,fancy her,worship her.She tels me I want to.What am I supposed to do.Cave in.I dont think so.I love the way she lstens to me intesly & gazes at me & then tells me I'm ugly.
Strange game isnt it.
 
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toasttopper1879 said:
Shes desperate for me to say I'd sleep with her,fancy her,worship her.She tels me I want to.What am I supposed to do.Cave in.I dont think so.I love the way she lstens to me intesly & gazes at me & then tells me I'm ugly.
Strange game isnt it.
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there is a thin line between being a charming but ****y ass and a complete *******..



i am pretty sure you crossed that line a long time ago. hence the LJBF. learn about calibration and congruency. and how to actually talk to women.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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