"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Sometimes you just can win

T

toasttopper1879

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 7, 2004
Messages
98
Reaction score
1
Location
england
Smetimes I really think you just cant win.
You try to do everything rightand I mean right.
I hav'nt acted needy,I've never called,chased.I've never bought gifts.I flirt lots,loads,she flirts back I flirt more.Theres kino,lots of kino.I tease her,dont give her an inch to get any wuss behaviour from me.She more or less begs for attention.She demands me to say shes attractive.I tell her shes a 5 at best,maybe a 6 after I've had 12 beers.I stay confident,aloof and well in control.I flirt with other women infront of her,she criticises so I flirt with the least attractive I can find.
And what happens.I get dumped in the friend zone.How did it happenI wish I knew.
She says I'm one of her closest friends now,she'll never sleep with me & she even thinks I'd make a good gay.
Sometimes a man just cant win.I'm resigning. Maybe just for a while.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Z

Zeal

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2006
Messages
38
Reaction score
0
toasttopper1879 said:
She demands me to say shes attractive.I tell her shes a 5 at best,maybe a 6 after I've had 12 beers.
Click to expand...
Holy crap. I'm all about "neg-hitting," but it seems that something like this would be nothing more than an insult unless your delivery and the rapport that you had leading up to it was perfect. Her reaction to all of the above was probably her way of protecting herself and trying to claw back some of her dignity after putting herself out there and scrambling for your attention.
 
T

toasttopper1879

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 7, 2004
Messages
98
Reaction score
1
Location
england
Shes desperate for me to say I'd sleep with her,fancy her,worship her.She tels me I want to.What am I supposed to do.Cave in.I dont think so.I love the way she lstens to me intesly & gazes at me & then tells me I'm ugly.
Strange game isnt it.
 
E

Egoist

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 3, 2005
Messages
938
Reaction score
5
Location
The city that sleeps. Sometimes.
toasttopper1879 said:
Shes desperate for me to say I'd sleep with her,fancy her,worship her.She tels me I want to.What am I supposed to do.Cave in.I dont think so.I love the way she lstens to me intesly & gazes at me & then tells me I'm ugly.
Strange game isnt it.
Click to expand...

there is a thin line between being a charming but ****y ass and a complete *******..



i am pretty sure you crossed that line a long time ago. hence the LJBF. learn about calibration and congruency. and how to actually talk to women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top