"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sometimes you just can win

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Smetimes I really think you just cant win.
You try to do everything rightand I mean right.
I hav'nt acted needy,I've never called,chased.I've never bought gifts.I flirt lots,loads,she flirts back I flirt more.Theres kino,lots of kino.I tease her,dont give her an inch to get any wuss behaviour from me.She more or less begs for attention.She demands me to say shes attractive.I tell her shes a 5 at best,maybe a 6 after I've had 12 beers.I stay confident,aloof and well in control.I flirt with other women infront of her,she criticises so I flirt with the least attractive I can find.
And what happens.I get dumped in the friend zone.How did it happenI wish I knew.
She says I'm one of her closest friends now,she'll never sleep with me & she even thinks I'd make a good gay.
Sometimes a man just cant win.I'm resigning. Maybe just for a while.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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toasttopper1879 said:
She demands me to say shes attractive.I tell her shes a 5 at best,maybe a 6 after I've had 12 beers.
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Holy crap. I'm all about "neg-hitting," but it seems that something like this would be nothing more than an insult unless your delivery and the rapport that you had leading up to it was perfect. Her reaction to all of the above was probably her way of protecting herself and trying to claw back some of her dignity after putting herself out there and scrambling for your attention.
 
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Shes desperate for me to say I'd sleep with her,fancy her,worship her.She tels me I want to.What am I supposed to do.Cave in.I dont think so.I love the way she lstens to me intesly & gazes at me & then tells me I'm ugly.
Strange game isnt it.
 
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toasttopper1879 said:
Shes desperate for me to say I'd sleep with her,fancy her,worship her.She tels me I want to.What am I supposed to do.Cave in.I dont think so.I love the way she lstens to me intesly & gazes at me & then tells me I'm ugly.
Strange game isnt it.
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there is a thin line between being a charming but ****y ass and a complete *******..



i am pretty sure you crossed that line a long time ago. hence the LJBF. learn about calibration and congruency. and how to actually talk to women.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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