"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sometimes I Wish It was LEGAL To Punch a Girl in Her f*cking Jaw!
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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So what happened?Robert28 said:
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Other than that, I think you just mad bro.
Keep it moving and try to adopt this attitude here: http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lho2pi25bG1qafrh6.jpg
Its currently how I feel about this thread.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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That never works for me. When they see me coming, the resulting ahem ..."dampness" prevents ignition.5string said:
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1. women view most guys they don't know as "creepy" or potential to be creepy, or be a rapist, or be a stalker, yet they have nothing to base this on other then "well I met this one creepy guy awhile back so I'm going to assume that all guys are this way". I'm sorry, but how many women have been in the news lately for KILLING THEIR CHILDREN? if they can assume most guys are creepy then it's fair for me to assume that most women will murder their own kids.
2. I love how single moms always preach "I have to do what's best for my child. I have to be picky in who I date or bring around my kid", the problem with that argument is they usually never go for th guy who's decent, has a job, has an education, doesn't have 7 other kids with 7 other women. instead they feel it's ok to date a guy that has no job, rides a moped, been in jail a few times, that's the role model they find suitable.
3. I hate women that are hot but date ugly guys. I don't know why I hate it but it just pisses me off. wtf are they thinking? are they blind? I consider myself a 7 but at least I have standards. you'll never see me with a fattie on my arm just because she has a nice personality. I also hate fit women who constantly date fat out of shape guys. what is that all about?
4. I hate how when you have a g/f it's ok for women to talk to you all the time, but if these same women are dating someone they can't talk to you because "that wouldn't be right". wtf is the difference? if I told this to a woman that was coming on to me and I had a g/f i'd be considered stuckup or full of myself.
5. I hate how women will drop off the face of the earth after a few dates if they arent interested, yet the harp about how important "honesty" and "being able to talk about your feelings" is important to them. they say they have no time for "games" and "childish b.s." but that's exactly what they do to you?
6. I hate how women can knock a guy that has a fetish(say like a foot fetish or thinks girls in heels is sexy) but I'm supposed to be down with their fetish of "pretending like you're raping me during sex". ummmm what? that's not weird but my turnons are? if women are so worried about guys they don't know raping them then where does this weird ass fetish come from? most of them have it to!
7. if you and I are dating and then you pop up out of the blue dating someone else and changing your relationship status on facebook, don't get mad when I delete you, delete your number, cut all contact with you and then you come ask the dumbass question of "why did you delete me? you're a jerk! why can't we be friends? you're so immature!". no, i'm not immature, I just think you are a ***** and can go fvck yourself.
8. i hate women that expect me to invest alot of money in a first date when i don't know if i'm going to get a second one or not. maybe you'll get your fancy dinner down the road, but you haven't done sh!t to deserve a trip to Mcdonald's yet so i don't know why they think they're entitled to it from the get go. if that's the case then i'm entitled to some ass, how about that?
9. I hate women that try to be like one of the guys. it's a turnoff. i think a woman that wears boots, tries to dress like a guy, wants to sit around and watch football and eat cheeto's with me and my friends is disgusting. you don't see me wanting to wear a dress, put on makeup and be one of the girls do you?
10. I hate hot women with fat friends.
There's my top 10 list so far.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
perseverance
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You need a wingman like me, when I'm off my head on alcohol, I'll take a fattie for the team.Robert28 said:
5string
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Gutsy. Just plain gutsy. :crackup:perseverance said:
perseverance
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I'll handle what you throw at me, my friend, don't you worry about that.Robert28 said:
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