"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sometimes a little surprise romantic email to a girl helps ALOT :)

DJBaron

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this is an email from a hb I'm trying to deal with right now...


" that was BY FAR the cutest email anyone has ever sent me HANDS DOWN!!!
for real, u touched my heart DEEPLY!
i feel like i wanna marry u because of that email. lol
im such a girly girl! i love mushy stuff. and the thing that shocks me, is that u showed me that and i didnt even ask for it!! "

using push/pull with LTR/marriage in mind, early on in development, we have not talked lately I randomly sent her a really nice songs lyrics I said reminded me of her. The thing that made it real is that I was being real when I thought about it.

After the song I was not all AFC, but not ROCK either, I wrote 2 extra lines and thats all.

Control + Emotions = 'great guy!'
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I randomly sent her a really nice songs lyrics
hmmm. My friend did exactly the same thing, and the girl was all over him afterwards.

I think a romantic message can up her IL, provided she's already very attracted you. Also, it seems song lyrics are definately the way to go - they are often poetic/well-worded, and don't require you to emote your "true" feelings by writting in your own words.
 

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I guess it worked for them but it obviously has not worked for everybody so I wouldn't say it raises IL or whatever.
 
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