"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sometimes a little surprise romantic email to a girl helps ALOT :)

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this is an email from a hb I'm trying to deal with right now...


" that was BY FAR the cutest email anyone has ever sent me HANDS DOWN!!!
for real, u touched my heart DEEPLY!
i feel like i wanna marry u because of that email. lol
im such a girly girl! i love mushy stuff. and the thing that shocks me, is that u showed me that and i didnt even ask for it!! "

using push/pull with LTR/marriage in mind, early on in development, we have not talked lately I randomly sent her a really nice songs lyrics I said reminded me of her. The thing that made it real is that I was being real when I thought about it.

After the song I was not all AFC, but not ROCK either, I wrote 2 extra lines and thats all.

Control + Emotions = 'great guy!'
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I randomly sent her a really nice songs lyrics
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hmmm. My friend did exactly the same thing, and the girl was all over him afterwards.

I think a romantic message can up her IL, provided she's already very attracted you. Also, it seems song lyrics are definately the way to go - they are often poetic/well-worded, and don't require you to emote your "true" feelings by writting in your own words.
 
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I guess it worked for them but it obviously has not worked for everybody so I wouldn't say it raises IL or whatever.
 
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