Number_One
Don Juan
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Your right hand, try it, it's brilliant!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The paradox is that until you've had sex your goal in life is to merely have sex. Only once you've had sex and realise "that was it" can you properly get greater goals.ElStud said:I need something to replace the want for p*ssy. Something that feels as great as masturbating but isn't. Having a goal that is nothing but sex get's boring. There has to be something greater in life than women. I need something that can replace, heck, give me a greater feeling than always wanting girls.
x2bigjohnson said:Heroin maybe?
Despite advice to the contrary, you're right ElStud. It's not healthy for your life to be about girls, and even less healthy to obsess about "getting laid." Who freaking cares. There's no such thing as a male virgin. And it's easy to tell that this is on your mind a lot, judging by the number of threads you start here...ElStud said:So girls are all to your life you're saying. More than girls is what I'm looking for. Like something else that gives a better satisfaction. I don't want girls to be all my life is.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ElStud said:I need something to replace the want for p*ssy. Something that feels as great as masturbating but isn't. Having a goal that is nothing but sex get's boring. There has to be something greater in life than women. I need something that can replace, heck, give me a greater feeling than always wanting girls.
ElStud said:I need something to replace the want for p*ssy. Something that feels as great as masturbating but isn't.
Why re you in school? Just for the hell of it?ElStud said:Well pretty much. Look for something that basically gives me a better feeling than p*ssy would and is more worth my time. Something that can occupy my time so that I'm NOT always thinking about girls.
Yes I'm in still school.
a better feeling than a ***** ?ElStud said:Well pretty much. Look for something that basically gives me a better feeling than p*ssy would and is more worth my time. Something that can occupy my time so that I'm NOT always thinking about girls.
Yes I'm in still school.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dude, there's enough to go around. Hahahah. Sorry but it just sounded so wrong.theunflushables said:Damn! Bigjohnson beat me to Heroin.
Yeh, totally. Sex is good but it IS overrated. It should be at the side of your life, not in the middle.The paradox is that until you've had sex your goal in life is to merely have sex. Only once you've had sex and realise "that was it" can you properly get greater goals.