Number_One
Don Juan
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Your right hand, try it, it's brilliant!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The paradox is that until you've had sex your goal in life is to merely have sex. Only once you've had sex and realise "that was it" can you properly get greater goals.ElStud said:I need something to replace the want for p*ssy. Something that feels as great as masturbating but isn't. Having a goal that is nothing but sex get's boring. There has to be something greater in life than women. I need something that can replace, heck, give me a greater feeling than always wanting girls.
x2bigjohnson said:Heroin maybe?
Despite advice to the contrary, you're right ElStud. It's not healthy for your life to be about girls, and even less healthy to obsess about "getting laid." Who freaking cares. There's no such thing as a male virgin. And it's easy to tell that this is on your mind a lot, judging by the number of threads you start here...ElStud said:So girls are all to your life you're saying. More than girls is what I'm looking for. Like something else that gives a better satisfaction. I don't want girls to be all my life is.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ElStud said:I need something to replace the want for p*ssy. Something that feels as great as masturbating but isn't. Having a goal that is nothing but sex get's boring. There has to be something greater in life than women. I need something that can replace, heck, give me a greater feeling than always wanting girls.
ElStud said:I need something to replace the want for p*ssy. Something that feels as great as masturbating but isn't.
Why re you in school? Just for the hell of it?ElStud said:Well pretty much. Look for something that basically gives me a better feeling than p*ssy would and is more worth my time. Something that can occupy my time so that I'm NOT always thinking about girls.
Yes I'm in still school.
a better feeling than a ***** ?ElStud said:Well pretty much. Look for something that basically gives me a better feeling than p*ssy would and is more worth my time. Something that can occupy my time so that I'm NOT always thinking about girls.
Yes I'm in still school.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dude, there's enough to go around. Hahahah. Sorry but it just sounded so wrong.theunflushables said:Damn! Bigjohnson beat me to Heroin.
Yeh, totally. Sex is good but it IS overrated. It should be at the side of your life, not in the middle.The paradox is that until you've had sex your goal in life is to merely have sex. Only once you've had sex and realise "that was it" can you properly get greater goals.