I need something to replace the want for p*ssy. Something that feels as great as masturbating but isn't. Having a goal that is nothing but sex get's boring. There has to be something greater in life than women. I need something that can replace, heck, give me a greater feeling than always wanting girls.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Something to replace the want for p*ssy?
- Thread starter ElStud
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
CapedCrusader08
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Idk,marriage,a loving,faithful wife,kids,nice big house,well paying job perhaps?
S.S.N. 318
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Hip Hop/Rappin
and a lot more...
and a lot more...
Solomon
Master Don Juan
ElStud said:
Hold up
are you serious?
Getting P*ssy>>>>>>>>Masturbating
If you want goals in life, write down a list of things you wanna do. Now and in the future, get a new hobby find out what makes you happy. Nobody except you can find the fulfillment of self
Solo
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Armored
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CapedCrusader08 said:
ElStud,
Get into Stanford Business School. That should occupy your time. Or at least a degree.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Elstud I do get it, read my post again, and read the bottom part.....ElStud said:
Ohhh! I thought you were looking for a substitute for pvssy. There isn't one.ElStud said:
You want something more worthwhile to chase. You need a dream. A desire.
What do you like to do? What would you like to be? Do that, and do it well.
18. Still in school?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well pretty much. Look for something that basically gives me a better feeling than p*ssy would and is more worth my time. Something that can occupy my time so that I'm NOT always thinking about girls.Alle_Gory said:
Yes I'm in still school.
ready123
Master Don Juan
you're not gonna ever erase that want, it's biologically programmed into you. even if you're getting pvssy, you're still gonna want to fvck. so learn to satisfy it and deal with it
on the other hand, you should have other things beside pvssy bringing meaning to your life
on the other hand, you should have other things beside pvssy bringing meaning to your life
We can't tell you that. You have to decide what you like to do, what you want to do.ElStud said:
Imagine you had son, what would you want to do with him? Teach him guitar? Take him camping? Teach him how to fix a tire? You have to decide for yourself.
Exactly and that's what I'm looking for other things that bring me as much joy as girls do. I'm not asking to get rid of it, I don't WANT to get rid of it. But what I'm saying is what something to take my mind off girls so I'm NOT always thinking about them. Or is there no greater feeling than sex and masturbation?ready123 said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Darth_Qurashi
Don Juan
thers lots of things in life that feel good. i guess its different for everybody, but i'll jsut give some examples in my life, for instance, i play guitar, and i love music, so playing guitar gives me pleasure and like when im' with my band and we play together, it feels rlly awesome with all the instruments playing together and harmonizing. other things ppl like doign are ilke working out, that feeling u get when u look at urself and see ur hard work finaly pay off. just small stuff like excelling in hobbies can rlly feel better than sex if u look at it from the right point of view. watch some standup comedy on youtube, that always does it for me when i can't sleep at night. just laugh, and live. go drive a fast sportscar and speed if the road is clear. or go to mc donalds and eat a big mac, or go to 7-11 and buy a kit kat bar and give urself a break. just treat urself whenever u get an urge by doing somethign u love.
bigjohnson
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Heroin maybe?
theobserver
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get a hobby, do a sport, start a business, find something you have a passion for to get your mind off of it. of course there are greater feelings, think about it for a second. sex and masturbation will always be there, it's the easiest thing for you to get at this point. but its not worth your mind's time, you can travel, learn and experience ****. go skydiving, surfing, rockclimbing. i performed (with my chorus) last summer in the sydney opera house AND in front of 350,000 people with the pope (World Youth Day), a once in a life time experience for me, and to be honest, it was way better than getting my **** sucked or ****ing some girl who you probably won't remember 10 years from now.ElStud said:
DonGorgon
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the only thing that is more powerfull than a straight mans desire for pu$$y is drug addiction... get hooked on crack and you wont even think about pu$$y any more...
War Against Betaism
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.