"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Something to replace the want for p*ssy?

ElStud

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I need something to replace the want for p*ssy. Something that feels as great as masturbating but isn't. Having a goal that is nothing but sex get's boring. There has to be something greater in life than women. I need something that can replace, heck, give me a greater feeling than always wanting girls.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ElStud said:
I need something to replace the want for p*ssy. Something that feels as great as masturbating but isn't. Having a goal that is nothing but sex get's boring. There has to be something greater in life than women. I need something that can replace, heck, give me a greater feeling than always wanting girls.

Hold up

are you serious?

Getting P*ssy>>>>>>>>Masturbating

If you want goals in life, write down a list of things you wanna do. Now and in the future, get a new hobby find out what makes you happy. Nobody except you can find the fulfillment of self

Solo
 

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Solomon said:
Hold up

are you serious?

Getting P*ssy>>>>>>>>Masturbating

If you want goals in life, write down a list of things you wanna do. Now and in he future, get a new hobby find out what makes you happy. Nobody except you can find the fulfillment of self

Solo
You don't get the point. I'm looking for something BETTER than masturbating, p*ssy or anything sex related.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ElStud said:
You don't get the point. I'm looking for something BETTER than masturbating, p*ssy or anything sex related.
Yes. Its called a girlfriend or fvck buddy or whatever you want her to be.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
Yes. Its called a girlfriend or fvck buddy or whatever you want her to be.
So girls are all to your life you're saying. More than girls is what I'm looking for. Like something else that gives a better satisfaction. I don't want girls to be all my life is.
 

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CapedCrusader08 said:
Idk,marriage,a loving,faithful wife,kids,nice big house,well paying job perhaps?
:rolleyes:

ElStud,

Get into Stanford Business School. That should occupy your time. Or at least a degree.
 

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ElStud said:
You don't get the point. I'm looking for something BETTER than masturbating, p*ssy or anything sex related.
Elstud I do get it, read my post again, and read the bottom part.....
 

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ElStud said:
So girls are all to your life you're saying. More than girls is what I'm looking for. Like something else that gives a better satisfaction. I don't want girls to be all my life is.
Ohhh! I thought you were looking for a substitute for pvssy. There isn't one.

You want something more worthwhile to chase. You need a dream. A desire.

What do you like to do? What would you like to be? Do that, and do it well.

18. Still in school?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alle_Gory said:
Ohhh! I thought you were looking for a substitute for pvssy. There isn't one.

You want something more worthwhile to chase. You need a dream. A desire.

What do you like to do? What would you like to be? Do that, and do it well.

18. Still in school?
Well pretty much. Look for something that basically gives me a better feeling than p*ssy would and is more worth my time. Something that can occupy my time so that I'm NOT always thinking about girls.

Yes I'm in still school.
 

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ElStud said:
Well pretty much. Look for something that basically gives me a better feeling than p*ssy would and is more worth my time. Something that can occupy my time so that I'm NOT always thinking about girls.

Yes I'm in still school.
become a priest or something, god could be your new passion
 

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you're not gonna ever erase that want, it's biologically programmed into you. even if you're getting pvssy, you're still gonna want to fvck. so learn to satisfy it and deal with it

on the other hand, you should have other things beside pvssy bringing meaning to your life
 

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ElStud said:
So girls are all to your life you're saying. More than girls is what I'm looking for. Like something else that gives a better satisfaction. I don't want girls to be all my life is.
We can't tell you that. You have to decide what you like to do, what you want to do.

Imagine you had son, what would you want to do with him? Teach him guitar? Take him camping? Teach him how to fix a tire? You have to decide for yourself.
 

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ready123 said:
you're not gonna ever erase that want, it's biologically programmed into you. even if you're getting pvssy, you're still gonna want to fvck. so learn to satisfy it and deal with it

on the other hand, you should have other things beside pvssy bringing meaning to your life
Exactly and that's what I'm looking for other things that bring me as much joy as girls do. I'm not asking to get rid of it, I don't WANT to get rid of it. But what I'm saying is what something to take my mind off girls so I'm NOT always thinking about them. Or is there no greater feeling than sex and masturbation?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thers lots of things in life that feel good. i guess its different for everybody, but i'll jsut give some examples in my life, for instance, i play guitar, and i love music, so playing guitar gives me pleasure and like when im' with my band and we play together, it feels rlly awesome with all the instruments playing together and harmonizing. other things ppl like doign are ilke working out, that feeling u get when u look at urself and see ur hard work finaly pay off. just small stuff like excelling in hobbies can rlly feel better than sex if u look at it from the right point of view. watch some standup comedy on youtube, that always does it for me when i can't sleep at night. just laugh, and live. go drive a fast sportscar and speed if the road is clear. or go to mc donalds and eat a big mac, or go to 7-11 and buy a kit kat bar and give urself a break. just treat urself whenever u get an urge by doing somethign u love.
 

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ElStud said:
Exactly and that's what I'm looking for other things that bring me as much joy as girls do. I'm not asking to get rid of it, I don't WANT to get rid of it. But what I'm saying is what something to take my mind off girls so I'm NOT always thinking about them. Or is there no greater feeling than sex and masturbation?
get a hobby, do a sport, start a business, find something you have a passion for to get your mind off of it. of course there are greater feelings, think about it for a second. sex and masturbation will always be there, it's the easiest thing for you to get at this point. but its not worth your mind's time, you can travel, learn and experience ****. go skydiving, surfing, rockclimbing. i performed (with my chorus) last summer in the sydney opera house AND in front of 350,000 people with the pope (World Youth Day), a once in a life time experience for me, and to be honest, it was way better than getting my **** sucked or ****ing some girl who you probably won't remember 10 years from now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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