I need something to replace the want for p*ssy. Something that feels as great as masturbating but isn't. Having a goal that is nothing but sex get's boring. There has to be something greater in life than women. I need something that can replace, heck, give me a greater feeling than always wanting girls.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Something to replace the want for p*ssy?
- Thread starter ElStud
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
CapedCrusader08
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Idk,marriage,a loving,faithful wife,kids,nice big house,well paying job perhaps?
S.S.N. 318
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Hip Hop/Rappin
and a lot more...
and a lot more...
Solomon
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ElStud said:
Hold up
are you serious?
Getting P*ssy>>>>>>>>Masturbating
If you want goals in life, write down a list of things you wanna do. Now and in the future, get a new hobby find out what makes you happy. Nobody except you can find the fulfillment of self
Solo
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Armored
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CapedCrusader08 said:
ElStud,
Get into Stanford Business School. That should occupy your time. Or at least a degree.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Elstud I do get it, read my post again, and read the bottom part.....ElStud said:
Ohhh! I thought you were looking for a substitute for pvssy. There isn't one.ElStud said:
You want something more worthwhile to chase. You need a dream. A desire.
What do you like to do? What would you like to be? Do that, and do it well.
18. Still in school?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Well pretty much. Look for something that basically gives me a better feeling than p*ssy would and is more worth my time. Something that can occupy my time so that I'm NOT always thinking about girls.Alle_Gory said:
Yes I'm in still school.
ready123
Master Don Juan
you're not gonna ever erase that want, it's biologically programmed into you. even if you're getting pvssy, you're still gonna want to fvck. so learn to satisfy it and deal with it
on the other hand, you should have other things beside pvssy bringing meaning to your life
on the other hand, you should have other things beside pvssy bringing meaning to your life
We can't tell you that. You have to decide what you like to do, what you want to do.ElStud said:
Imagine you had son, what would you want to do with him? Teach him guitar? Take him camping? Teach him how to fix a tire? You have to decide for yourself.
Exactly and that's what I'm looking for other things that bring me as much joy as girls do. I'm not asking to get rid of it, I don't WANT to get rid of it. But what I'm saying is what something to take my mind off girls so I'm NOT always thinking about them. Or is there no greater feeling than sex and masturbation?ready123 said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Darth_Qurashi
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thers lots of things in life that feel good. i guess its different for everybody, but i'll jsut give some examples in my life, for instance, i play guitar, and i love music, so playing guitar gives me pleasure and like when im' with my band and we play together, it feels rlly awesome with all the instruments playing together and harmonizing. other things ppl like doign are ilke working out, that feeling u get when u look at urself and see ur hard work finaly pay off. just small stuff like excelling in hobbies can rlly feel better than sex if u look at it from the right point of view. watch some standup comedy on youtube, that always does it for me when i can't sleep at night. just laugh, and live. go drive a fast sportscar and speed if the road is clear. or go to mc donalds and eat a big mac, or go to 7-11 and buy a kit kat bar and give urself a break. just treat urself whenever u get an urge by doing somethign u love.
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Heroin maybe?
theobserver
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get a hobby, do a sport, start a business, find something you have a passion for to get your mind off of it. of course there are greater feelings, think about it for a second. sex and masturbation will always be there, it's the easiest thing for you to get at this point. but its not worth your mind's time, you can travel, learn and experience ****. go skydiving, surfing, rockclimbing. i performed (with my chorus) last summer in the sydney opera house AND in front of 350,000 people with the pope (World Youth Day), a once in a life time experience for me, and to be honest, it was way better than getting my **** sucked or ****ing some girl who you probably won't remember 10 years from now.ElStud said:
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the only thing that is more powerfull than a straight mans desire for pu$$y is drug addiction... get hooked on crack and you wont even think about pu$$y any more...
War Against Betaism
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Alcohol
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.