"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Something the Community rarely talks about....

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Is STD's and Sex. Not Sex in the sense of what to do but the consqeunces of your actions. Now this ain't a "how to" thread. I've noticed lof of guys just wanna bang bang bang. Now if that's what you wanna do then power to you. However, you have to be careful. In my state for instance the rate of STD's has gone up by 4% over the last year not a lot right? (but its seventeen thousand more people infected), the crazy part is herpes isn't even on the list(yikes!!!).

My thing is this guy, It's fun kiss closng a chick on the field, or even banging them But do you wanna wake up a couple days later just to find out she left you a "present"?. Condoms can only protect you to a point, some of these women (and men) are foul they don't care if they know. There was this lady in london who was sleeping with men for revenge, because she got aids from her exm, 10 guys got infected y'all, 10 motherferking guys. The scarier part is, some of these STD's are dormant so a person won't even know they have them until it's to late.

All I'm saying is protect yourself and be careful in the decisions that you make. One night of pleasure is not worth a lifetime of misery

peace and elbow grease

Solomon

p.s. and Don't forget to get tested regularly
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm curious, What brought this about Solo?

That threesome didn't leave you itchy did it? :|

in any case, condoms always, unless it's your wife. That's my motto period.

so far i've gotten along ok. no burning sensations, no "OH MAH GAWD! I GOTZ TO GET TO DA CLINIC!" hangovers, and the worst i got was a friction burn from a less than perfectly lubricated romp. That actually hurt more than i thought it would.
 
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=139108&highlight=std+thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=127777&highlight=std+thread+merged
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154250&highlight=std
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137947&highlight=std
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137986&highlight=std
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=71762&highlight=std
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=117509&highlight=std
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=35751&highlight=std
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=64887&highlight=std
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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penkitten said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=139108&highlight=std+thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=127777&highlight=std+thread+merged
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154250&highlight=std
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137947&highlight=std
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137986&highlight=std
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=71762&highlight=std
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=117509&highlight=std
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=35751&highlight=std
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=64887&highlight=std
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lol @ penkitten *reps* good lookng

@Aargon--NO bud, but sometimes u wonder, like WTF did I do that for? I'm a paranoid dude....lol
 
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Wear a condom...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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slaog said:
Women who sleep around alot are far more likely to have diseases.


Choose wisely who you sleep with.
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The same is true of men. And nearly all of us here want to sleep around with a lot of women. "He who lives in a glass house should not throw stones."
 
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Smack said:
The same is true of men. And nearly all of us here want to sleep around with a lot of women. "He who lives in a glass house should not throw stones."
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Yes men are the same but I can only advise on what women to look out for. As for me I have a GF so I know I won't catch anything.
 
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Everybody has something. All you can do is use a condom and just be perceptive.
 
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I'm always strapped...

On the other note about the KISSING, I've experienced this...Kissing so many different girls start to make my throat hurt, so I've stopped that. I'm very selective with my making out now.

Sucks though because my calibration is so down that my mind is saying "MAKEOUT!!! MAKEOUT!!! Hold ON...YOU DO KNOW YOU CAN MAKEOUT RIGHT?"

The first time I experienced it was in a makeout challenge, it felt like I was catching a cold, as for sex, I always have condoms and REFUSE to ever attempt raw dogging it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Snow Plowman said:
On the other note about the KISSING, I've experienced this...Kissing so many different girls start to make my throat hurt.
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I remember my very first kiss close a few years back. It was with some girl I met at the club for like 5 minutes, next thing I know were making out on the dance floor.

Next day I had a sore throad. I don't go for kiss closes anymore.
 
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