"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Something the Community rarely talks about....

Solomon

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Is STD's and Sex. Not Sex in the sense of what to do but the consqeunces of your actions. Now this ain't a "how to" thread. I've noticed lof of guys just wanna bang bang bang. Now if that's what you wanna do then power to you. However, you have to be careful. In my state for instance the rate of STD's has gone up by 4% over the last year not a lot right? (but its seventeen thousand more people infected), the crazy part is herpes isn't even on the list(yikes!!!).

My thing is this guy, It's fun kiss closng a chick on the field, or even banging them But do you wanna wake up a couple days later just to find out she left you a "present"?. Condoms can only protect you to a point, some of these women (and men) are foul they don't care if they know. There was this lady in london who was sleeping with men for revenge, because she got aids from her exm, 10 guys got infected y'all, 10 motherferking guys. The scarier part is, some of these STD's are dormant so a person won't even know they have them until it's to late.

All I'm saying is protect yourself and be careful in the decisions that you make. One night of pleasure is not worth a lifetime of misery

peace and elbow grease

Solomon

p.s. and Don't forget to get tested regularly
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm curious, What brought this about Solo?

That threesome didn't leave you itchy did it? :|

in any case, condoms always, unless it's your wife. That's my motto period.

so far i've gotten along ok. no burning sensations, no "OH MAH GAWD! I GOTZ TO GET TO DA CLINIC!" hangovers, and the worst i got was a friction burn from a less than perfectly lubricated romp. That actually hurt more than i thought it would.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Wear a condom...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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slaog said:
Women who sleep around alot are far more likely to have diseases.


Choose wisely who you sleep with.
The same is true of men. And nearly all of us here want to sleep around with a lot of women. "He who lives in a glass house should not throw stones."
 

slaog

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Smack said:
The same is true of men. And nearly all of us here want to sleep around with a lot of women. "He who lives in a glass house should not throw stones."
Yes men are the same but I can only advise on what women to look out for. As for me I have a GF so I know I won't catch anything.
 

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Everybody has something. All you can do is use a condom and just be perceptive.
 

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I'm always strapped...

On the other note about the KISSING, I've experienced this...Kissing so many different girls start to make my throat hurt, so I've stopped that. I'm very selective with my making out now.

Sucks though because my calibration is so down that my mind is saying "MAKEOUT!!! MAKEOUT!!! Hold ON...YOU DO KNOW YOU CAN MAKEOUT RIGHT?"

The first time I experienced it was in a makeout challenge, it felt like I was catching a cold, as for sex, I always have condoms and REFUSE to ever attempt raw dogging it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dannyrt34

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Snow Plowman said:
On the other note about the KISSING, I've experienced this...Kissing so many different girls start to make my throat hurt.
I remember my very first kiss close a few years back. It was with some girl I met at the club for like 5 minutes, next thing I know were making out on the dance floor.

Next day I had a sore throad. I don't go for kiss closes anymore.
 
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