"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Something the Community rarely talks about....

Solomon

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Is STD's and Sex. Not Sex in the sense of what to do but the consqeunces of your actions. Now this ain't a "how to" thread. I've noticed lof of guys just wanna bang bang bang. Now if that's what you wanna do then power to you. However, you have to be careful. In my state for instance the rate of STD's has gone up by 4% over the last year not a lot right? (but its seventeen thousand more people infected), the crazy part is herpes isn't even on the list(yikes!!!).

My thing is this guy, It's fun kiss closng a chick on the field, or even banging them But do you wanna wake up a couple days later just to find out she left you a "present"?. Condoms can only protect you to a point, some of these women (and men) are foul they don't care if they know. There was this lady in london who was sleeping with men for revenge, because she got aids from her exm, 10 guys got infected y'all, 10 motherferking guys. The scarier part is, some of these STD's are dormant so a person won't even know they have them until it's to late.

All I'm saying is protect yourself and be careful in the decisions that you make. One night of pleasure is not worth a lifetime of misery

peace and elbow grease

Solomon

p.s. and Don't forget to get tested regularly
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Aragon034

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I'm curious, What brought this about Solo?

That threesome didn't leave you itchy did it? :|

in any case, condoms always, unless it's your wife. That's my motto period.

so far i've gotten along ok. no burning sensations, no "OH MAH GAWD! I GOTZ TO GET TO DA CLINIC!" hangovers, and the worst i got was a friction burn from a less than perfectly lubricated romp. That actually hurt more than i thought it would.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Wear a condom...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Smack

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slaog said:
Women who sleep around alot are far more likely to have diseases.


Choose wisely who you sleep with.
The same is true of men. And nearly all of us here want to sleep around with a lot of women. "He who lives in a glass house should not throw stones."
 

slaog

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Smack said:
The same is true of men. And nearly all of us here want to sleep around with a lot of women. "He who lives in a glass house should not throw stones."
Yes men are the same but I can only advise on what women to look out for. As for me I have a GF so I know I won't catch anything.
 

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Everybody has something. All you can do is use a condom and just be perceptive.
 

Snow Plowman

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I'm always strapped...

On the other note about the KISSING, I've experienced this...Kissing so many different girls start to make my throat hurt, so I've stopped that. I'm very selective with my making out now.

Sucks though because my calibration is so down that my mind is saying "MAKEOUT!!! MAKEOUT!!! Hold ON...YOU DO KNOW YOU CAN MAKEOUT RIGHT?"

The first time I experienced it was in a makeout challenge, it felt like I was catching a cold, as for sex, I always have condoms and REFUSE to ever attempt raw dogging it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dannyrt34

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Snow Plowman said:
On the other note about the KISSING, I've experienced this...Kissing so many different girls start to make my throat hurt.
I remember my very first kiss close a few years back. It was with some girl I met at the club for like 5 minutes, next thing I know were making out on the dance floor.

Next day I had a sore throad. I don't go for kiss closes anymore.
 
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