"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Something that *BUGS* me

white cloud 8

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Hi,

I don't know what it is but, some of my friends think that they can come over and hit me, slap me or push me around. I don't know, if I give off a vibe or something? :cuss: I am a calm, peaceful person (just a nice guy). Sometimes I feel like punching them in the throat e.g. one night when I was out with some other friends, we were sitting down at a table talking, then one of my other friends hits me on the shoulder (I turned around to see who it was because I was about to hit whoever it was, it made me mad) and he does this in front of people who he doesn't know, that is just disrespectful. He seems to do it in front of a girl (that he is with or whatever, maybe an attempt to look tough or cool). I bit my tongue when he did it because I was about to beat his ass down. He doesn't know me that well to be pulling sh*t like that, and in a place I regularly go to. It really pissed me off. I'm thinking that if it happens again, I'm going to tell him that its not cool.

What do others think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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comic_relief

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if he is your friend, tell him. "Yo, don't do that **** anymore and if you do, than I will punch you right back once." He will test it, and FOLLOW THROUGH WITH IT!!! then just say, "Told you so."

If a person doesn't respect me, than I will make him.

My one friend made me look like an @$$ all the time, and I just turned the tables around on him on the flip of the hat the one time. Now, he won't try this sh!t in front of girls that I am trying to game.

If you want respect, give people a reason to respect you.

It's just what I would do.

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