Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Something that *BUGS* me

white cloud 8

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Hi,

I don't know what it is but, some of my friends think that they can come over and hit me, slap me or push me around. I don't know, if I give off a vibe or something? :cuss: I am a calm, peaceful person (just a nice guy). Sometimes I feel like punching them in the throat e.g. one night when I was out with some other friends, we were sitting down at a table talking, then one of my other friends hits me on the shoulder (I turned around to see who it was because I was about to hit whoever it was, it made me mad) and he does this in front of people who he doesn't know, that is just disrespectful. He seems to do it in front of a girl (that he is with or whatever, maybe an attempt to look tough or cool). I bit my tongue when he did it because I was about to beat his ass down. He doesn't know me that well to be pulling sh*t like that, and in a place I regularly go to. It really pissed me off. I'm thinking that if it happens again, I'm going to tell him that its not cool.

What do others think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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comic_relief

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if he is your friend, tell him. "Yo, don't do that **** anymore and if you do, than I will punch you right back once." He will test it, and FOLLOW THROUGH WITH IT!!! then just say, "Told you so."

If a person doesn't respect me, than I will make him.

My one friend made me look like an @$$ all the time, and I just turned the tables around on him on the flip of the hat the one time. Now, he won't try this sh!t in front of girls that I am trying to game.

If you want respect, give people a reason to respect you.

It's just what I would do.

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