"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Something that *BUGS* me

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Hi,

I don't know what it is but, some of my friends think that they can come over and hit me, slap me or push me around. I don't know, if I give off a vibe or something? :cuss: I am a calm, peaceful person (just a nice guy). Sometimes I feel like punching them in the throat e.g. one night when I was out with some other friends, we were sitting down at a table talking, then one of my other friends hits me on the shoulder (I turned around to see who it was because I was about to hit whoever it was, it made me mad) and he does this in front of people who he doesn't know, that is just disrespectful. He seems to do it in front of a girl (that he is with or whatever, maybe an attempt to look tough or cool). I bit my tongue when he did it because I was about to beat his ass down. He doesn't know me that well to be pulling sh*t like that, and in a place I regularly go to. It really pissed me off. I'm thinking that if it happens again, I'm going to tell him that its not cool.

What do others think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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comic_relief

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if he is your friend, tell him. "Yo, don't do that **** anymore and if you do, than I will punch you right back once." He will test it, and FOLLOW THROUGH WITH IT!!! then just say, "Told you so."

If a person doesn't respect me, than I will make him.

My one friend made me look like an @$$ all the time, and I just turned the tables around on him on the flip of the hat the one time. Now, he won't try this sh!t in front of girls that I am trying to game.

If you want respect, give people a reason to respect you.

It's just what I would do.

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