"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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something more challenging than sex?

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Not to discredit others ambitions, but doesn't sex seem like a neolithic aspiration in the context of relationships with women?

It seem to me that women exhibit a different motivational spectrum when it comes to having sex -- one that looks more like self-expression instead of, say, conquest.

Given this I've begun to think about different goals with women since they don't seem to offer me anything outside of child-bearing or increased emotional comfort in the home.

Give me a new goal people.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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something really kinky that most girls won't do like ass to mouth
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Find a lady who is interesting.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You have to look to your life outside of women to provide ambition, challenge, excitement, & purpose to your life. Sex is a side dish--and sure those qualities are inherent to getting over your fear of rejection, and learning to approach, and pulling girls who were previously inaccessible to you--but that's temporary; eventually you'll reach mastery; things will get stale; and then it's time to push yourself in other areas.

That's the secret to happiness for men: You were made for the struggle. Find one.
 

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Invite her for skydiving. Snow or water skiing. 5-10K running. See if she's made of the same stuff you are. The possibilities are endless. Sex is just the frosting on lifes' cake.

Or get a BJ on a roller coaster with her and hope she doesn't have a bite reflex…
 
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I know plenty with math skills.


Assume you mean one that is interesting and not bat-sh1t-crazy?


Good one.


hmm
Yeah, no 10 cat, crazy chicks either.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My thoughts:

Woman good for Sex - Easy to get

Woman good for company - So so

Woman good for girlfriend- Difficult

Woman good for wife - Impossible

Woman who can manage money -:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
 

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My thoughts:

Woman good for Sex - Easy to get

Woman good for company - So so

Woman good for girlfriend- Difficult

Woman good for wife - Impossible

Woman who can manage money -:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
Does the three-feature-dilemma apply to women???

(The three feature dilemma, as I've come to know it: "speed, cost or quality; pick two". a painful lesson you are probably familiar with if you've worked near manufacturing, engineering or construction)

sex, friendship, companionship; pick two

pretty, healthy, athletic; pick two

??
 

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Does the three-feature-dilemma apply to women???

(The three feature dilemma, as I've come to know it: "speed, cost or quality; pick two". a painful lesson you are probably familiar with if you've worked near manufacturing, engineering or construction)

sex, friendship, companionship; pick two

pretty, healthy, athletic; pick two

??
Not sure about that, for I surely just met a women who was the whole.... 'trifecta'. She was sexy, she was friendly, and she was intelligent. I liiiike this one.

All at your local Starbucks near you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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