"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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something more challenging than sex?

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Not to discredit others ambitions, but doesn't sex seem like a neolithic aspiration in the context of relationships with women?

It seem to me that women exhibit a different motivational spectrum when it comes to having sex -- one that looks more like self-expression instead of, say, conquest.

Given this I've begun to think about different goals with women since they don't seem to offer me anything outside of child-bearing or increased emotional comfort in the home.

Give me a new goal people.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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something really kinky that most girls won't do like ass to mouth
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Find a lady who is interesting.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You have to look to your life outside of women to provide ambition, challenge, excitement, & purpose to your life. Sex is a side dish--and sure those qualities are inherent to getting over your fear of rejection, and learning to approach, and pulling girls who were previously inaccessible to you--but that's temporary; eventually you'll reach mastery; things will get stale; and then it's time to push yourself in other areas.

That's the secret to happiness for men: You were made for the struggle. Find one.
 

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Invite her for skydiving. Snow or water skiing. 5-10K running. See if she's made of the same stuff you are. The possibilities are endless. Sex is just the frosting on lifes' cake.

Or get a BJ on a roller coaster with her and hope she doesn't have a bite reflex…
 
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I know plenty with math skills.


Assume you mean one that is interesting and not bat-sh1t-crazy?


Good one.


hmm
Yeah, no 10 cat, crazy chicks either.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My thoughts:

Woman good for Sex - Easy to get

Woman good for company - So so

Woman good for girlfriend- Difficult

Woman good for wife - Impossible

Woman who can manage money -:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
 

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My thoughts:

Woman good for Sex - Easy to get

Woman good for company - So so

Woman good for girlfriend- Difficult

Woman good for wife - Impossible

Woman who can manage money -:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
Does the three-feature-dilemma apply to women???

(The three feature dilemma, as I've come to know it: "speed, cost or quality; pick two". a painful lesson you are probably familiar with if you've worked near manufacturing, engineering or construction)

sex, friendship, companionship; pick two

pretty, healthy, athletic; pick two

??
 

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Does the three-feature-dilemma apply to women???

(The three feature dilemma, as I've come to know it: "speed, cost or quality; pick two". a painful lesson you are probably familiar with if you've worked near manufacturing, engineering or construction)

sex, friendship, companionship; pick two

pretty, healthy, athletic; pick two

??
Not sure about that, for I surely just met a women who was the whole.... 'trifecta'. She was sexy, she was friendly, and she was intelligent. I liiiike this one.

All at your local Starbucks near you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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