something just hit me like a ton of bricks

[backbreaker]

It was a baseball...

No seriously though, think about this.

There isn't a situtation that you can post about that anyone, including myself can find something wrong with.

" This girl just met me and seems very interested in me, and she isn't dating anyone. We went out and she said she didn't want to have sex the first night"

Oh, the fact that she doesn't have a BF means there must be something wrong with her. Also she isn't attracted to you physically. Move on

" This girl likes me, but she has a BF, but we go out every once in a while"

She is using you for her tampon (which may be true, more times than not) Move on

"This girl I met told me to call her, but when I did she didn't pick up the phone. I called her again and she said she was busy, and she would call me back later that night"

She isn't interested in you. Move on

" yeah, I just has sex with this woman. Doggy style on top of that. We had sex all night. We were only on our 4th date"

She just is an attention *****. Now that you gave her attention, she is going to fade to black. Move on

Okay, while I am not saying that this advice is wrong, think about it... Is there any one situtation where you can automatically say "No, this girl likes me, no questions asked?"

NO

What I am saying is first and foremost, use your gut. Your gut is usually right about most things. If you think this chick diggs you, and you do know the rules of the game, even if she does have a BF, or is playing hard to get, or is working all the time, guess what. She probably likes you.

Not to say that the advice on here is bad.. I wouldn't be where i am today with women if it wern't for the advice here, but I have learned to take everything with a grain of salt.

 

[madgame]

So...now tell us backbreaker - who's that girl?

 

[killerasp]

i agree with you. but some people look into details way too much and often it leads to your downfall. who cares if she was busy, if you look deeply into it, you will think about way to much and you wont get anywhere. when it comes down to it, girls want to be persued, its been like that for ages. just go with your gut and be persistant. besides, if one girl is busy, find another girl that isnt and have fun with her.

 

[backbreaker]

No girl really, just info I gathered from reading all of these posts

 

[Ol'BlueEyes]

I agree to a large degree

The DJ's of this site are teaching the AFC's the rigid criteria of nexting, when what the AFC's should be doing is just getting a few relationships under their belts. I know that's what my problem is. A few girls here, a few there, I see a red flag and next the girl. No wonder I haven't had a girlfriend last more than a month.