"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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backbreaker

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It was a baseball...

No seriously though, think about this.

There isn't a situtation that you can post about that anyone, including myself can find something wrong with.

" This girl just met me and seems very interested in me, and she isn't dating anyone. We went out and she said she didn't want to have sex the first night"

Oh, the fact that she doesn't have a BF means there must be something wrong with her. Also she isn't attracted to you physically. Move on

" This girl likes me, but she has a BF, but we go out every once in a while"

She is using you for her tampon (which may be true, more times than not) Move on

"This girl I met told me to call her, but when I did she didn't pick up the phone. I called her again and she said she was busy, and she would call me back later that night"

She isn't interested in you. Move on

" yeah, I just has sex with this woman. Doggy style on top of that. We had sex all night. We were only on our 4th date"

She just is an attention *****. Now that you gave her attention, she is going to fade to black. Move on

Okay, while I am not saying that this advice is wrong, think about it... Is there any one situtation where you can automatically say "No, this girl likes me, no questions asked?"

NO

What I am saying is first and foremost, use your gut. Your gut is usually right about most things. If you think this chick diggs you, and you do know the rules of the game, even if she does have a BF, or is playing hard to get, or is working all the time, guess what. She probably likes you.

Not to say that the advice on here is bad.. I wouldn't be where i am today with women if it wern't for the advice here, but I have learned to take everything with a grain of salt.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i agree with you. but some people look into details way too much and often it leads to your downfall. who cares if she was busy, if you look deeply into it, you will think about way to much and you wont get anywhere. when it comes down to it, girls want to be persued, its been like that for ages. just go with your gut and be persistant. besides, if one girl is busy, find another girl that isnt and have fun with her.
 

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No girl really, just info I gathered from reading all of these posts
 

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I agree to a large degree

The DJ's of this site are teaching the AFC's the rigid criteria of nexting, when what the AFC's should be doing is just getting a few relationships under their belts. I know that's what my problem is. A few girls here, a few there, I see a red flag and next the girl. No wonder I haven't had a girlfriend last more than a month. :rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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